ok so his is the story my cousins ex step daughter is my friend ( shes 15) and like 2 years ago my cousin caught her masturbating ( dont know how to spell it) they did not
give it to much importance
like a couple weeks ago she
got a boyfriend oh i forgot to say she is like " special ed" she normal but she has some mental problems any ways her dad works at night and she has no mom cause she died in a car accident. so shes always alone at night and her brother gets out of work at like 11 pm. so like a couple of weeks ago she came home from school and brought her boyfriend home with her. meanwhile her brother got out early from work and went
to his house not noticing the guy in his sisters room..... so he walked in on her having sex with the guy he got soo pissed and he faught him righ there there was soo much comotion in the house the neighbors called 911 and the cops came and then the cops found out thet she was always alone at night and they were thinking of taking her away
2006-10-05 13:41:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
but they arent going to take her away anymore. but now my cousin has to pick her up after school and taker every where she goes so that she wont be alone. and they also found a secret box of hers that was locked and contained porn and condoms and right now im really grossed out i cant belive it. the thing is that she dosent know that i know she did that its just unbelivabe cause shes special ed and she was soo interested in sex i just cant belive it how can i help her without letting her find out i know and waht is your opiniond on this??/ and they also found out that that wasnt the first time that happened
2006-10-05 13:42:29 · update #1
First of all just because you are in Special ED doesn't mean your are retarded! It could many of things, Like you don't learn as fast as others, or you get bored very fast ( A. D.D.), or maybe you have problems at home and you get distracted very easily. She is probably more normal than you and I. People in these classes tend to be very smart.
It sounds to me like maybe she was abused when she was younger! Maybe she is still being abused! That is probably why she is in Special ED!
PS. Everyone Masturbates, Even you! You just didn't get caught!
Also if she is your friend, why are you talking behind her back? Maybe at a time like this you should be talking to her......
2006-10-05 13:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok at the age of 15 its all we tend to think of is boys and sex and sex and boys! That part is natural. BUT her dad should have known she needed someone to be at night with her. HELL any 15 year old girl should not be given that kind of freedom! They may feel cuz of the few mental things she has that she needs alot more supervision cuz guys would and WILL take full advantage of her BIG time!
2006-10-05 14:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, there are ZERO answers for you or her on yahoo. what needs to happen first is she really needs professional help. it's unfortunate that she doesn't have a mother to give her the guidance she so very desparately needs. there's only so much a father, brother and cousin can do for her. my husband is a police officer and deals with issues like this frequently. when a mental condition is the case, ONLY a professional can help. please, see that your friend gets the help she desparately needs and deserves. and, please, please, please don't be messy with the information you've already broadcast over the internet. this is a delicate situation and should not be toyed with by the irresponsible idiots that will respond to this with jokes and disgust. so, if you're a TRUE FRIEND, be real. be genuine. get help. FAST! peace & blessings.
2006-10-05 14:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by christian.renee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun,i am unsure of which part of this is a question.I will put this on my watch list and keep an eye out for a question. My answer is on the other question that has the same content.Have a nice day!
2016-03-27 06:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it sounds like she is in a bad way. Try getting her into structural activities, like volunteering for a YMCA or in a teen club of some kind. It is phase, it will pass in time.
2006-10-05 13:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone masterbates or has, It sounds like she
has been threw alot and might need some sort of
direction, what ever you do stay in her life and be
there for her !!! help her it's important.
2006-10-05 13:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by koko 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just answered this question,twice.Why are you repeating it hun?Please refer to your other question for my answer.
2006-10-05 13:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal teen with curiosity.
2006-10-05 15:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not seeing what she did wrong...
2006-10-05 14:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her that u no and talk to her about it. just do wat u would do with any other friend
2006-10-05 13:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by jordanthegrouch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋