I really need some advice. I need a delicate way to tell my one of my best frinds I might love him. We've been friends for two years and I've liked him for over a year. I really need to know what to do. Please help
2006-10-05 13:34:09 · 10 answers · asked by Mayday Cay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is a delicate one. When one falls in love with a best friend, you risk the chance that if the "relationship" does not work out, you might lose the friendship. With that being said, proceed carefully. Let him know your feelings have gone from that of friendship to another level and see what he says. Be prepared if he is not ready to reciprocate your feelings. It's a touchy situation.
2006-10-05 13:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to tell him is when the two of you are alone. it would help if you can assure that he is in a good mood at the time, and things are just normal as always. He'll know whats coming if you build it up and build it up. Honesty is always the best way to tell someone something of this caliber, and it works best with guys. He may feel the same or he may not, but if you hesitate and dont tell him, youll never know what couldve been. Good Luck!
2006-10-05 13:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by man_hands542 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is your best friend, do you really think you should do that? i mean yea yall know each other well and you do have feelings for him but if you want to get with him, later on down the line you may risk your bf and your best friend...
2006-10-05 14:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by b26_angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just drop it in a talk between the two of you that you are getting really attached to him and go from there
2006-10-05 13:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by southern angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. just be straight forward, don't be TO pushy though. just go somewhere quiet and that you both enjoy (ex. a favorite restaurant) and just come clean. even if he wants to stay friends it will feel better to get it off your chest.
2006-10-05 13:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by icanskate411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have a casual talk. See where he stands and regardless, just let him know how you feel. You'll feel much better knowing it's off your chest.
2006-10-05 13:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by mzteajae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask him right out or you could give him hints that you're interested in being more than friends.
2006-10-05 13:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, and if that's to frightening, either wait till he tells u, or just let the fun last as u guys are friends.
2006-10-05 13:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by jaaaaaaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a note and tell him. Good luck!
2006-10-05 13:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should defeneatly tell him how u feell.....u never know if he is gonna like u bakc...and if not just continue being friends
2006-10-05 14:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by sk8r_princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋