ok so his is the story my cousins ex step daughter is my friend ( shes 15) and like 2 years ago my cousin caught her masturbating ( dont know how to spell it) they did not
give it to much importance
like a couple weeks ago she
got a boyfriend oh i forgot to say she is like " special ed" she normal but she has some mental problems any ways her dad works at night and she has no mom cause she died in a car accident. so shes always alone at night and her brother gets out of work at like 11 pm. so like a couple of weeks ago she came home from school and brought her boyfriend home with her. meanwhile her brother got out early from work and went
to his house not noticing the guy in his sisters room..... so he walked in on her having sex with the guy he got soo pissed and he faught him righ there there was soo much comotion in the house the neighbors called 911 and the cops came and then the cops found out thet she was always alone at night and they were thinking of taking her away
2006-10-05 13:27:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
but they arent going to take her away anymore. but now my cousin has to pick her up after school and taker every where she goes so that she wont be alone. and they also found a secret box of hers that was locked and contained porn and condoms and right now im really grossed out i cant belive it. the thing is that she dosent know that i know she did that its just unbelivabe cause shes special ed and she was soo interested in sex i just cant belive it how can i help her without letting her find out i know and waht is your opiniond on this??/ and they also found out that that wasnt the first time that happened
2006-10-05 13:32:19 · update #1
oh its cause i was writing too much that i ran out of space
2006-10-05 13:33:47 · update #2
shes special cause she was in a car accident when her mom died and she sufferded from some brain dammage. she was not born like that
2006-10-05 13:45:50 · update #3
how can i help her without letting her find out and what is your opinion? should they take her away?
FOR THE SECOND TIME AND THIS IS A QUESTION!
2006-10-05 13:51:09 · update #4
Hun,this is the same statement repeated,what is your question again?
Ok,well the only thing you can do is support her.Just because she has some psychological issues does not mean she cannot be interested in sexual activities.She is young,so of course she shouldnt.I would suggest,you be a positive rolemodel for her.Your family,her father needs to be more strict with her.At that age she is going to be curious and she is going to wonder,that is normal.He needs to have a female relative who is older than she is and more experienced speak with her about sex.They need to be one that she trusts and can ask questions when she has a question about that sort of thing.The reason i say a female,is because her father or her brother would be a little uncomfortable for her,which means she wont open up to them.She needs someone that she can ask those questions to,someone who can teach her about sexual activity,and its risks.She just needs a female figure in her life,she also needs more discipline.Without her mother around i am sure it is hard on her.She doesnt have that female figure in her life.If she surrounds herself with positive female rolemodels she will start looking up to them,wanting to be like them.Just be a positive rolemodel for her,have your mother or an aunt speak to her.Someone she can ask questions to comfortably who isnt going to go tell her father,just someone she can confide in.That should help her to be able to talk and not act irresponsibly.I wish your friend and her family luck!
2006-10-05 13:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Masturbating is normal sex at such a young age is not. Sounds like she is craving attention (male attention) and will get it anyway she can. If no one is home most of the time she is lonely. A woman always know she can get attention by using her body. Her parents need to talk to her right away before she get too involved or pregnant. She should not be left alone until she can prove that she is responsible enough.
2006-10-05 13:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you disgusted? There's many mental diseases, but unless she has one that makes her believe she's still in elementary school, it's far from surprising that she's interested in sex. Masturbation and sexual activity (even if not a good idea) are normal. Plus, aren't you glad she was using protection? Better she get caught in the act rather than caught pregnant or with a STD.
2006-10-05 13:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by erythisis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun i don't think there is anything you can do to help her.. i think this is something her dad needs to deal with.. but he should consider getting her checked for std's... you just never know!
2006-10-05 13:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by ♥cutemamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant believe that but you not asking a question
2006-10-05 13:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by babyblu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your are groosed out like i am,but she should never be alone
2006-10-05 14:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by soccer kisses!!!!!!!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wats da question?
2006-10-05 13:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and the question is....
2006-10-05 13:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by webby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋