I have not seen my old childhood sweetheart in years, recently I found her living in another state..I found out that she is engaged to a real jerk according to her relatives..Well, I dont know how to get it through her head that I am still in love with her..We have sent each other recent photos and we both are impressed, I know she is attracted to me but I dont want to approach her with how I really feel about her because Im afraid she wil turn against me..What should I do
2006-10-05 12:53:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it is not a good idea to stay in touch with her after she knows you got the hots for her, the last thing you need is to become a crying shoulder. let her know, drop the bomb and wait to see if she will meet you half ways. if you really love something set it free, if it comes back, it is eternally yours, if not, it never was.
2006-10-05 12:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Eryc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to look at two things...First one is if you don't tell her then she might end up getting married so you lose her anyway..The second is if u do say something to her and she does still have feelings towards u then thats a plus.Just be honest with her..Tell her what u told us...Tell her how u fear that if u tell her how u feel about her she might turn against u.Woman love honest vulnerable men....Good luck
2006-10-05 13:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tell her u still love her before she makes the biggest mistake of her life. And I don't think u want her to be miserable with a jerk I think your better for her than that jerk she's marrying.
2006-10-05 12:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she turns aginst you then you know to back off just tell her you still feel love and ask her does she also it sounds like she does sending photos and all just go for it thats what I say I know me being a women and all If I didnt like a guy I wouldnt send him photo's and maybe what she is wanting is for you to get her out of this wedding......
2006-10-05 12:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bash her boyfriend. It only make you look bad. Just tell her like you told us. Tell her you would love to pick up where yall left off years ago. Good luck!
2006-10-05 12:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has got to make the first move. Do not become a homewrecker. Let her call you, but get her to tell her spouse that they are finished.
2006-10-05 12:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋