guy=16 super hot and wanted by all girls
girl=13 and i am not concieded so i wont describe myself but the 16 y/o dude gets jelous of da other dudes real e-z
2006-10-05 12:52:56 · 32 answers · asked by lemons 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hey if you guys are in love with each other then theres a great chance this will work out. It all depends on the both of you. Maybe he's not jealous of the other guys but he just wants to make sure you are his and his alone. Now it is up to you to reassure him. Allow him to genuinely know that you love him and no matter what these other guys say or do he'll always be the one and the only. At the same time he should not get side tracked by all these other girls that want him. He should focus on you. As i said before there are a million and one ways to make it work if its something you both want. Good Luck!
2006-10-05 13:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Pretty face 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 13 too.At the moment.I'll be 14 in January.I don't date anyone under 17.Im not a virgin.I have a son.He is only 4 months and 8 days old.I have alot of experience.Im white his daddy is black my man is 28 ive been wit him since i was 11 1/2.it depends if yall really love each other unless it is lust.People see me they think im grown i look like im about 17 or 19 im only 13. dont listen to everyone else i might be 13 and they might be grown but trust me its not what everyone else thinks its what u know and also it depends how mature u are.
2006-10-05 13:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's a tuff one. I"m not going to say you should stay in this relationship because of the age diff alone, but so are you ready for it. he as two years from being a man and able to do way more things you can't or are not invited to do. You know the usual things clubs, parties, etc. If you feel you are ready for that kind of stress at such a young age then hang in there, but be ready (if you are not already do so ) for for the challenges that lay ahead with what you want, learning the hard way is not always the way to go. you have all the time in the world to be boy crazy. .......just askn what do you expect to come from this?
2006-10-05 13:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Gemini20 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see i think you are too young to be engaged in a relationship like that. it can hardly work out believe me. cos you have even 7 years to be 20.which is so far away a lot of events can take place within this years if you are together . if you really love each other then why not wait .you can be friends and by so doing you get to know each other much better ok .and after being friends for say some years say 5 years and you still love each and still friends then you can go aheard but for now it is 80 and 20 percent for it to work out. and if you are ment for each other no thing can dispute that ok
2006-10-06 04:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by cutie senzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, females do mature faster than males emotionally...BUT guys tend to get into/want/have sex before females. Be careful, especially with him being 3 years older. Sex is not what you need at 13 years old. Also, if he's "wanted by all girls" and knows it he might be a bit cocky, or a young "man-whore".
I know you want to be in relationships, but at such a young age you really need to be cautious. Also know that teen romances (again, especially so young) hardly ever work out in the long run. Just be careful and have (responsible) fun.
2006-10-05 13:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Independent 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!! Stay away from him. He's too old for you! I was 12 and had a 16 year old boyfriend, and there's no way on earth I'd let my daughter date a boy that much older. You'll understand in about 20 years.
2006-10-05 12:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell u the truth its not going to work out im 13 and i dated a 16 year old and it didint work cause all they like to do is play with your head and they look for one thing and one thing only SEX
2006-10-05 13:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I won't say it can't work, but the main problem is your frame of reference. Do you REALLY like the same things or just pretending because he's hot. Is he really interested in you or does he just want someone on his arm. Most boys of that age don't have anything but self-gratification on their mind. I've heard stories of boys using sex as a way to PROVE you like them. If you have to PROVE anything to a man he's not worth it.
And one last thing, when he's 18 you'll be 15 and jail bait.
2006-10-05 13:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by katwoman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could possibly work, just make sure that he likes u for u and he's not thinking that u can be laid easliy! i've been in the same situation except i was 13 and he was 17 almost 18. my relationship worked out great. i hope yours does too.
2006-10-05 12:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by shawnieluvsya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a good Idea to wait until you GROW UP
You dont want to be taken advantage of he is a bit old my opinion only "mother of two teenage daughters".
2006-10-05 12:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by raliegh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋