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the more you ride him the more comfortable you will become. you must give it time. you'll soon adjust. you have to trust him and he also must trust you. he will sense your feeling.

2006-10-05 12:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by jen_284 3 · 0 0

Take lessons. Your fear comes from not knowing the horse and/or how to handle him. That's okay! I've been riding for 11 years and I'm retraining a 4 year old race horse for the first time. It's been 4 months and I get nervous when I'm by myself sometimes! My trainer has been my Godsend however and I could not be doing this without her.

Likewise, a trainer will instill confidence in you when they teach you how to ride, or how to ride your horse better. They will teach you how to relax in the saddle and if something doesn't go your way, how to work around it to get what you want from the horse.

A trainer will set you up for success and this will build your confidence! This is so very important.

If you decline a trainer, then your fear may get the best of you eventually. The horse WILL take advantage of your fear and once he does something to undermine your confidence you may never get it back and it will all go downhill from there until you get hurt and finally quit riding all together. Don't take that chance. Good luck!

2006-10-06 06:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by keylime1602 3 · 0 0

You have to remind yourself that there's nothing to be afraid of. Does anyone who manages the stables know your horse pretty well? Would they tell you that he's a good horse?

I was also really scared riding a horse once. You have to remember that horses have been around for quite awhile, and I'm pretty sure your horse knows what it's doing. Trust him. Horses are really good animals. Try spending time with him and getting to know him, and befriend him and you'll learn to trust him. You don't have to start big though. Just stay near him. Even if he's on the other side of the fence, only a little aware of you to begin with.

2006-10-05 12:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea =] 2 · 0 0

Did you have a bad experience on a horse or are you a new rider? I would say, relax! Learn how to read you horse, what he telling you? What exactly are you afraid of? Personally i would tell you the best way to get over your fears is to spend time on the ground with your horse. Ground training gives confidence in the horse and you! If you think your horse is naughty, you might want to look again at the problem, what is your horse thinking? Is he scared? Is he testing you? Are you giving him cues that you are unaware of? Just relax and listen and be aware of what kind of communication is going on between you and your horse. Good luck

2006-10-06 04:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by tonka 2 · 0 0

Look into taking a few lessons on a reliable lesson horse. It will do wonders for your confidence in yourself and your balance. Have some one experienced ride your horse a few times learn how he responds to different things so he won't suprise you. You'll know then that just becauses he tosses his head when you ask him to do something doesn't mean he's prepsring to rear or act up. Do some lunge line exercises and ground work so he understands he's listening to you. Lunge him 10-20 minutes before mounting to get any spare energy out and focus his mind on working. He'll learn thats the cue to calm down and concentrate. Best of luck

2006-10-05 15:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by emily 5 · 0 0

Every rider experiences fear at some point. The problem is that the horse knows it. And the horse will be tense if you are tense.
The horse can feel it most times because you tend to hold your breath when you are scared and they can tell.
One trainer told me to sing out loud not loud but so you are making noise and if you are singing you are breathing. Less tension.
It does work. For sometime my hourse thought row row row your boat was his theme song.
It helps. Try some medatative breathing or somme yoga exercies that focus on breathing and relaxing.
It does help and with some time and work you will get better and feel great on your horse.
Remember you ride becasue you enjoy it.

2006-10-05 12:43:29 · answer #6 · answered by tlctreecare 7 · 0 0

Don't be scared of your horse, theycan be your best friends at times. Just spend more time w/ your horse. I did and when he passed away I was sad but I thought I'm soo greatful for him being in my life cause i could talk to him. Just get used to your horse and luv him once u do that he'll luv u back and won't put u in any harm. My horse got used to me and he wouldn't even run w/ me cause he didn't want me to fall off. Well I hope this helped a little

2006-10-05 12:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by greeneyedsnowboarder 1 · 0 0

you have an exceptionally impolite and unprofessional instructor; mine could by no potential say this kind of concern and no-one's would desire to. it is common to concern while your horse needs to take administration and extra so CAN take administration of circumstances. My suggestion *i'm assuming you experience english because of the fact I have not have been given any concept what any of the words you used are (and that i do no longer comprehend in the experience that your barn could enable this) If he's working away on you utilize a extra harsh bit OR a hackamore I desire hackamores, and you somewhat do have plenty extra administration with them. yet another concern, once you get on your horse you're immediately thinking what if he does so and so (i'm assuming) experience HIM! do no longer think of roughly what he ought to do think of "he will try this, because of the fact it is what I informed him to do". case in point i ultimately after 2 years of dealing with my pony rearing up continuously earlier stepping into a hoop have been given him to easily and flippantly walk into the ring without situation by potential of focusing on the barrel direction that develop into set up as a replace of focusing on the gate. discipline him; while he does some thing he shouldn't do no longer enable him escape with it and extra effective than that don't actually do no longer end on him because of the fact he will capture on and he will save utilising that tactic. Spend a good number of time with him on the floor, if his floor manners are not great shape those up earlier you experience him. He needs to appreciate you. have faith in him, if there is not any self belief he will sense the comparable as you sense now; you sense extra afraid because of the fact no one believes in you, this could be a 2 way highway he feels the comparable. desire any of this helped.

2016-10-01 23:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by haslinger 4 · 0 0

You'll get more comfortable the more you ride him. Just take precautions and try to not be afraid, because when you're nervous, your horse will know it, and it makes him nervous.

2006-10-05 12:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by Rock_and_Roll 2 · 0 0

The only way that you can stop being scared is riding him more often, it will build up your confidence and you will get to know him more and what he is capable of.

2006-10-08 12:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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