i only like the girls that treat me like sh*t basically because i like a challenge. is this weird?
yes im a lesbian so any homophobic answers can p*ss off
2006-10-05 12:28:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i cant help the way i feel. i just dont like the 'good' girls
2006-10-05 12:41:52 · update #1
karen walker is my idol!!!
2006-10-05 12:42:27 · update #2
no not girls who play hard to get, but girls that are messed up and have problems and are selfish. damn im weird
2006-10-05 12:45:47 · update #3
Yes it's "weird" but there is an explanation for it. Judging by your screen name you sound like you can be self destructive. Many people with low self esteem issues will go after other people who will hurt them in same way or another because they feel like they can't do better. Not only that but by knowing getting involved with someone who is going to put you down even more is a way of choosing to be self destructive.
2006-10-06 04:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not weird, i use to like a challenge but then i kind of get bored after a while (kinda over the whole game playing thing). Do you mean playing hard to get???? because why would you want to be with someone in the long run that treats you like crap (that's a bad self-esteem)??? Maybe you should set the both of them up... And keep having a look around, if that's not what your type is don't settle for anything short...
Well then i think that's a pity because you seem to be a really decent girl who should be treated right : (
2006-10-05 12:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by *Aus*Surfer*Girl* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So just let them know-you can still be friends.NO your not weird,or maybe were both weird! I have the same problem. Even with men or women,I'm attracted to the type's mom warned us about. It's always the ones who have bad records and speak their mind. Don't take no sh*t off anyone. My girl now sure ain't perfect-she has a bad wrap sheet,but I'v helped her stay out of trouble a lot. Well once in a while we get into trouble together,but nobody's perfect. Defiently not one for the goody goodys!
2006-10-05 13:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth do you prefer to b abused? Do you realize that you are a beautiful person worthy to b treated right. Were you abused as a child cause that would explain some. Old patterns can haunt us for life if we don't love and forgive ourselves. Or then again maybe you get off on the rush of it all. In my opinion you are not weird just a little confused on being good to yourself. Good luck opt for a nice girl the love WILL b better!!!
2006-10-05 12:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh... back off? Dude, you're a terrible individual. If a woman is taken, she's taken. you do no longer even comprehend her that properly, you in all risk have not have been given any clue approximately who her boyfriend is, and you're already making assumptions that a) her boyfriend is a "dork", and b) you're extra effective perfect for her than him, even nevertheless they have been making their relationship artwork for a year and a a million/2. you're crushing on her majorly, and it is clouding your judgement. What you will desire to do is tell her your thoughts, then see her reaction. I wager you cash she would be waiting to back off. in basic terms because of the fact a woman talks to you, would not recommend she likes you. you're maximum actual contained in the chum zone, bro, I hate to break it to you. college is a peculiar and wonderful time. you're thrown right into a collection of hundreds of those which you do no longer comprehend. in case you stumble on somebody you relate to a sprint, of direction you will get related. yet that would not recommend SHE LIKES YOU IN A ROMANTIC way. As suggested, back off.
2016-10-01 23:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by haslinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if thats weird or not, you like what you like.
I am a stud that is very nice and likes to treat a lady like a lady. But it's looking like girls only like the bad girls that treat them like ****, go figure!
No wonder i'm single, I need to go and get a rap sheet and a couple of felony's and i'll be snatched up in a NY minute! lol
2006-10-06 05:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by angelajock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its wierd at all that you are attracted to the "nasty" one.
It could be that you find more similarities with her than you do the other 2.
If you like a challenge then go for it - you only live once, but be careful that you are not gonna get hurt in the end
2006-10-05 12:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by Cyberken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knew a girl that only liked guys that treated her that way. which was a pity for me because i really liked her and i'd treat her like a princess if i had the chance.
anyway politely tell them you're not interested.
2006-10-05 12:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by ___johnnymnemonic___ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want anyone treating me like ****-but my g/f has a bad ass attitude and i love it.She don't take no **** from anyone~except maybe her kids-lol~anyway the real nice girls don't appeal to me,besides i have all i want in what I've got!!!!
2006-10-05 15:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would love my friend Karen Walker then
2006-10-05 12:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋