my best friend in the whole world wont talk to me... we are supposed to go to a show and have a sleepover, too, but because in the locker room i played a joke on some people with another group of friends (she wasnt in either group) and now she wont talk or email me!! what do i do?
2006-10-05 12:11:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to apologize, find out what has made her so angry, and see what you can do to make it up to her. If she refuses, you'll just have to accept that. Respect is an important part of friendship, and you can't force her to see it your way or laugh it off or forget about it. You have to respect her.
2006-10-05 12:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Skippy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is treating you unfairly. The same thing happened to me. Well, similar. You have to ask her whats wrong with her. Tell her how you feel. If you are really best friends, you should be able to tell each other exactly how you feel with no problem. I feel for you because when ever my friend doesn't talk to me, I go home, after school, and cry my eyes out. I understand how you feel. Your friend is being a jerk. Truthfully, I think that your' friend was just jealous because you were hanging around with those other girls. If she ends up telling you whats the matter with her, you should apologize. Even if you don't want to apologize, you still should, because it will make things easier for you, and your friend. Eventually, your friend will apologize too. At the sleepover, maybe you could talk to her about it. I hope that this advice helps because it always helps with me.
2006-10-05 19:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't do much. Just leave her a voice message or note on her door saying you're very sorry you hurt/offened her but that she's a great friend and you hate to see your friendship end over something like this. Tell her you still hope she'll hang out w/ you this weekend.
That's really all you can do. The ball is in her court. I wouldn't bug her about it because pressuring her will only make it worse.
And you probably won't like this, but...if the joke you played on the other people was really mean or hurtful, she may not want to be your friend because she realized you can be so cruel. Maybe you're not the person she thought you were. Just a thought...
Hope it all works out for you.
2006-10-05 19:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Girl named Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your "best friend in the whole world" she will get over it, especially as she was not involced in the joke. Just totally ignore it for a day or two. Then go back to her apologise for whatever you did in the locker room. And then tell her you do not want to lose your friendship over something so silly.
2006-10-05 19:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your best friend - give her a call. Don't let a joke ruin your friendship. Maybe she's just jealous that you had a good time w/ other friends. Next time maybe you could have her join you on your next fun activity.
2006-10-05 19:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by tanner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should at least apolgize to the person you played a joke on. Hopefully you've learned your lesson and maybe haven't lost a friend. But if you have...chalk it up to expierence
2006-10-05 19:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be mature and have a sit down with this "friend" and ask her if it was something that you have done. Maybe it's you or maybe she is going through something you know nothing about. you will never know unless you say somthing. good luck
2006-10-05 19:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by TNW22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST LEAVE HER A MESSAGE THAT YOU PLAYED A DUMB JOKE AND YOUR SORRY. ASK IF THE SHOW AND SLEEPOVER ARE STILL ON OR NOT.
2006-10-05 19:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when ever you see her talk to her!! ask her why she isn't talking to you and most likely she will tell u whats wrong.
2006-10-05 20:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by latinalicious33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite another friend and get over it!!!!!
2006-10-05 19:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by courtney n 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋