My spouse ejaculates too quickly (less than 1 minute). I love him very much and this is the only point of our relationship that is not great. Can anyone suggest anything to delay ejaculation? I want us to have a better sex life. I want us to sweat and have a great time.
2006-10-05 12:11:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
You can buy de-sensitising sprays that will dull his nerve-endings and help prevent him cumming too soon.
or he could try wearing a condom or two....basically, he needs to stop his sensations being too intense too quickly.
Good luck and happy sweating. !! :-)
2006-10-05 12:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you can last longer in bed you will notice that you confidence level rises. You are on the top of the world, you feel like a king and a macho man. Since you are no longer insecure you do not have to put pressure on your lover to make you feel like a man. Taking pressure off of your partner will great improve the relationship and allow you to grow together as a couple instead of sucking the life out of each other.
Makes You More Open
When you feel that you have nothing to hide you may begin to be more open. Not just more open with your feeling but possibly more open with the sexual acts in which you are interested. This will great improve not only the relationship but it would improve your sex life as well. As you can see there is a lot riding on your ability to keep an erection while you are involved in intercourse.
Conclusion
There are various all natural methods that you can use. You can last longer in bed but you do have to work on it. Anything that was ever worth having had to be worked for and sexual intimacy and a better relationship sound like a worthwhile quest to me.
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2015-07-31 20:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The best solution is to gain control over it. As someone already said, stop when you're getting there and relax. Pay more attention to pleasuring your mate--orally, perhaps--and avoid rubbing your penis up against anything while doing so. It will take work on your part and patience on both parts. Learn here http://EndPrematureEjaculation.enle.info/?q4bJ
As a last resort, some antidepressants curb sexual functioning with the intention of learning the pleasure of restraint after which you could taper off them. Here's your goal: the longer you can delay your orgasm, the more intense it will be. So it isn't just a matter of satisfying your mate. This is the main reason some claim stoned sex is better, unlike drunk sex which can leave you unable to perform (brewer's droop). You enjoy exploring each other longer. And remember, oral isn't just one place. It's all over, paying particular attention to kissing, and TALK about what each of you like. Strange how people don't talk about sex when they're the ones doing it.
2017-02-16 14:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-28 11:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by Nicholas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I have the same problem. We use condoms and a spray from the adult book store. It takes away feeling from his, well you know. But he HAS to wear a condom or your female anatomy will go numb as well which will defeat the purpose. If you find out another way, let me know.
2006-10-05 12:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by tanyahurt76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could jack-off about a 1/2 hour earlier then use a condom to do the deed. That should work.
2006-10-05 12:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sonny Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the Boston Medical clinics. They are all over. They specialize in this and ED.
2006-10-05 12:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before intimacy, have him remove one from the chamber, so to speak. While he is recharging, he will be able to go much longer with you. Quite simple but effective.
2006-10-05 12:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by charley128 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably nervous, and then he gets nervous about it happening and the problem continues. A small amount of alcohol might help relax him - or just making him feel more comfortable and less nervous (in whatever way) should help.
2006-10-05 12:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Apollo C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you buy him a penis ring. They even have them at the drug store and it goes on the base of the penis and helps him go longer.
You can buy them online and its more descreet of course.
http://www.drugstore.com/qxp143644_332828_sespider/spartacus/rubber_penis_ring_set_blue.htm
2006-10-05 12:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by WiserAngel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋