I mean it could be a simple question but do you think she is hinting to me that she is a lesbian? i said no and then i asked her the same question she said once. and all the time i am around her house she always walks around in her underwear or with no bra on.
2006-10-05 11:59:48 · 14 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe she fancies you or she's just curious.
2006-10-05 12:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by angelstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That can be a little difficult, can't it? We dislike ambiguity when people speak with us, but if they are direct sometimes it scares the dickens out of us. It is too confrontational. It sort of puts us on the spot. What I feel you must do is to ask yourself how you feel about her. This will inform you how to respond to her, if you care to take it further. To make it easy all around, accept it for the simple and direct question it is. Women are fairly intuitive, and I find it hard to believe you would not be able to "read" your friend fairly easily. If you do, what may be happening here is that you are distancing yourself from what you feel you know. Keep it simple. You could become bold and ask her if she would like to kiss you. Too bold? Well, just be kind, then. Answer honestly. It also seems to me if she were interested in taking this a step further, it would be up to her to do so. If she makes you uncomfortable or you feel a little uneasy, find some way to let her know that, so a good friendship will not be weakened or ruined. I have had moments like this with others, and it is very good to clear the lines of communication as quickly as you can, so your friendship with them can continue to be the good thing you have enjoyed from the beginning. I really hope this helps shed a little light on a confused situation. Sent with good energies from Chris in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A. (I am 63 years old. Directness, kindness, respect and honesty makes your friendships with others healthy.)
2006-10-05 12:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup she's gay or lesbian whatever you want to call it, I was married for 12 years, have two kids and I had to ask that question of my wife,, she had and did, then she left the family home, and left the kids with me, thankfully I might say, to live with her new girlfriend, I was a tad surprised! so I know a bit about this subject, although for the past 12 years I must have been a bit stupid I agree!!
so, just tell her straight out, not interested but thank you,
or ,
well I suppose it's your life and you control it, if it works for you etc.
2006-10-05 14:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. If you have a good friendship than it will survive that question. If the answer is no, than you could tell her that you feel uncomfortable with her not wearing a bra, and if the answer is yes then you are probably doing her a favour as she might not know how to breach the topic with you.
2006-10-05 12:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So maybe she is a lesbian and she likes you. She may be testing the water so to speak to find out if you fancy some girl on girl action ...
If her wearing no underwear is scary for you, ask her to put something on!
2006-10-05 12:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her in a general tone of voice... "Hey, I was just wondering why you asked me if Ive ever kissed a girl and then you walk around in your underwear?" and then tell her you were just wondering, no offense or anything.
Does she have a boyfriend or talk to you about guys she likes?
2006-10-05 12:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by misjes2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't mean she is a lesbian. Have you ever known of her to involved with another woman? Sounds like her question to you just made you paranoid.
2006-10-05 12:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by Debbrophy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cor ur lucky!!! Send her this way blud!!!
2006-10-05 12:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by badboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably tries to get ur attention. well u can try this experience. why not.
2006-10-05 12:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by sonya_p007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well would you, sounds like a perfect opportunity, go for it...
2006-10-05 12:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by blueman2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you a lot!
2006-10-05 12:01:34 · answer #11 · answered by Phil S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋