This guy and I have been back and forth, he's done most of the damage to the realtionship. How can I get over it without letting him back in.
2006-10-05 11:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by girlie99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is always a way to finish a relationship. The difficult part is getting past the emotional baggage that comes along with it. If you loved this person, then the transition will be slow and uncertain. If, however, you have just gotten accustomed to a companion, to someone around, to just having someone there, perhaps it may be a time of reflection as to what went wrong. Remember too, that there is nothing wrong with making amends after six years if you so choose, but if you have made a resolve in your heart to move on then do not flip-flop as you likely did in the relationship or you will end up asking this question again in a few months. Get over it if you must, deal with your emotions with support from friends and in relying on your own heart and move forward. Noone should ever be so dependent on another that even when it is over, they would rather deny it - that is weakminded. Be strong and always stand for what you know in your gut is the right course. T
2006-10-05 13:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Inda Mist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 20:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by Caitlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to move on. Spend some time with yourself and with your girlfriends. Get active in groups or activities. List out what was great about your relationship and what wasn't so great. Then think about what you really want and what is important to you.
2006-10-05 11:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey all you have to do is dating again.Maybe you will find someone more wonderful.If he was the right guy for you .You wouldn't break up in the first place
2006-10-05 12:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by Krys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS NOT EASY BUT YOU WILL COME TO THE POINT WHERE YOU GET TIRED OF IT AND REALIZE YOU CAN AND WILL DO BETTER IF HE DOESNT WANT TO STRAIGHTEN UP WHY SHOULD YOU KEEP PUTTING UP WITH IT?? THINK ABOUT IT YOU CAN FIND SOMEONE WHO WONT PUT YOU THROUGH IT AND YOU COULD BE HAPPY..
2006-10-05 14:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by b26_angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing helps get over the frist one like the next one!
2006-10-05 11:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by feelingfroggy2424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I need the answer to this too... haven't been able to. Same situation.
2006-10-05 11:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Liz♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go shag someone new in notime you will feel like a new woman
2006-10-05 11:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by ken j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋