She is 10 yrs old, very forgetful, doesn't like to shower or was her hair. I'm always yelling at her. she doesn't pay attention to anything.. you can be talking to her directly in her face and she just doesn't get it. I hat to say it but somedays I just want to send her away. could something be wrong with her?
2006-10-05 11:51:35 · 10 answers · asked by k_5961 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she just rebelling. my 12 year-old sister does the same things. even the shower thing, she hates them and has to be told over and over again. i suggest threatening to take things away. nothing too serious, or else she will just want to upset you more.
2006-10-05 11:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by kristina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, this is the way of todays youth. Shes bucking you for everything you tell her and the louder you yell, the worse itll get, and its probably going to get worse before it gets better, sorry. Todays youth thinks they know so much more than mom and dad, so they figure you cant tell them anything. TV has destroyed our kids as well as family morals and values, and our kids are learning such behavior from all those shows. The more she realizes that shes getting to you the more shell do it, so youll have to learn the fine art of ignoring her and calmly dealing with her when you do. It wont be easy at first but with a little patience, itll work wonders. I know this from first hand experience raising two young adult women. Good luck
2006-10-05 19:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is hitting the preteens a little early, mine was the same way. I suggest contacting an adolescent psychologist as this could be a psychological problem. If you do not have health insurance (a major problem facing Americans today), contact your local county or state MHMR and/or church / synagouge. They may be able to help your daughter based on a sliding scale. I wish you the best of luck and pray for your daughter.
2006-10-05 18:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Texas M.B.A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there's is nothing wrong with her,she just want to see how far you're going to let this go on.EVERYDAY YOU SAY TO YOURSELF GOD YOU HELP ME BRING HER IN THIS WORLD NOW HELP ME WITH THIS PROBLEM.(START PRAYING) Stop yelling because all this does is get you upset,and it makes her rebel.Start showing her all the nice outfits little girls wear,and you hope one day she would want to wear something like this, not now and you understand.Ask her to do you a favor,because it looks bad on you when she doesn't take a bath.Please email I want to know how things are going godmoneybusiness@yahoo.com
2006-10-05 19:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a doctor - she could very well have a medical problem.
2006-10-05 18:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya somethings definitley wrong with the poor kid, she has you for a parent
2006-10-05 18:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by justcurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that one is a hard one. my daughter is the exact same way. she is 9. but i also know that she is bipolar. this does not mean your kid is. frist thing to do is talk to her doctor about it
2006-10-05 18:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by feelingfroggy2424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to the doctor and have her checked out!
2006-10-05 18:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
or something could be wrong with you. why would you yell at her? maybe thats her way of ignoring you??
2006-10-05 18:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by playfultoyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ADD
2006-10-05 18:55:00 · answer #10 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋