My two year relationship just ended. My ex has a commitment issue and always goes back on his feelings. one minute everything is fine next he is breaking up with me and says he needs space...Everytime we have been apart he has slept with some random female and it bothers me. He says he still has love for me and that he wants to stay friends in case of a possible future together. I do love him a lot but there is so much I can take does anyone have the best advice to give. thanks
2006-10-05 11:50:57 · 16 answers · asked by crushedheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he loved you he wouldn't break off with you every time he wanted to screw around with other women.
2006-10-05 11:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I need for you to tell this guy that if he really loves you then he shouldn't be breaking up with you so often, hurting you feelings and fornicating with other girls. If he can't stop doing these things then it makes no sense that you continue the relationship. If he loves you as he says he does then he wouldn't just put you to one side as reserve and say to you let's just be friends for now in case i need you in the future. He might be using you, so just talk to him and get things straight.
2006-10-05 18:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ashanofy Frederick Dixon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you sister! Run, and do it fast!
I mean come on, wants to stay friends just in case of a future together. Find someone who's worth it!
2006-10-05 18:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lilat180 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy - dump him. Why? The last thing you want in a real relationship is for your partner to bail on you every time things get rough - and even worse, go sleep with someone else when things get rough. You deserve someone more mature and more stable. Time to move on!
2006-10-05 18:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case, take a few days off with yourself. Then start to looking for a new guy.
2006-10-05 18:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember, Actions speak louder than words.
2006-10-05 18:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by CHOCOLATE_SCORP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on to another dude and scew the other dude that slept with some hoe go get another dude
2006-10-05 18:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by *Living a {{ღяøM@N!Cღ}} Tragity* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move now, get away from this low life, you don't miss him. you are just feeling sorry for yourself. Get as far away as possible
2006-10-05 18:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and go sleep with a random male. show him how it feels. he deserves it. go get drunk and make him pay. them when he pleads for forgiveness, take him back. every time he dumps you, repeat the procedure.
2006-10-05 18:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by _la imaginaria_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes to be a safe whore== feels ok with hisself as you are not together. the pain will probably continue unless one or both wakes up
2006-10-05 18:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋