2006-10-05 11:25:09 · 7 answers · asked by no name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dnt tell me to keep ma self busy!! its useless .. nor knowing other ppl.. ive tried them all.. uselesssssssssssss!!!
2006-10-05 11:31:59 · update #1
You need to vent, vent, vent! Its obvious you are in the grief stage. There is not a answer that any one is going to give you today that is going to make you feel better. So, tell me or someone all about what you are going threw. Pour your heart out, and release some of your anger. This is a small opening, for future well being. But any road you get on at this point, is better than setting in the gutter of life, going threw the pain you are feeling, and keeping it to yourself. If you have a girlfriend you can call, or write to, then just try this for openers. If you don't want to talk to someone you know, then feel free to email me. I have been told I am a good listener. :)
2006-10-05 11:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then you are not trying hard enough!!!!!!!! You can just lay down to die over this. You deserve better and you need to deal with the fact that he is gone and move on. Really, Make some new friends.. Which means you will meet new guys. You have to stick with it and dont say " It dont work" Because it does if you TRYYYYY Doesnt sound like you wanna move on. But its time you do. Dont be a stupid girl who sit around thinking about everything you miss about him.. That dont help. Think about all the bad things. ect. Get out there and go to a club and dance dance... You have to keep your mind on something and TRY or you will never move on. And never be able to be happy again. Try running and working out.. So you look in shape and bad ***. Also try shopping and going out and showing off your hot self !!!!! Go get them girl. Dont worry about him, You can always find someone new and better. You have your whole life ahead of you!
Hope I could help you. TRYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-05 18:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its always easier for people who are not going through a heartbreak to give advice such as keep busy and start seeing other people but no I don`t believe that's the answer.Its very hard to get over someone you loved dearly try as best as you can not to sit and dwell over the situation that will only make you more miserable and you could end up wanting to take your life.Unfortunately the only thing that is going to help you get over this is time,as time goes by it will get a little easier to except and deal with.But if you notice your getting worse please seek help from a professional trained to deal with this.Best of luck to you
2006-10-05 18:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by ravenmo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over a beloved is to go on and act like nothing has happened. Just pretend that he/she is away on a trip with his family. In the mean time spend a lot of time with your family and distract your self from what's going on. The best medicine for a broken heart is time. Time heals all wounds!
2006-10-05 18:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by eoest_8504 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard but sometimes some one comes into your life and will help you forget!! it happend to me and now I've been with my new love for ! year and we live together and are going to have a baby in december I'm so excited. but you don't have to worry how old are you?
2006-10-05 18:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've split up, then he obviously wasn't your 'beloved.' Get out there and meet new people. Good luck. :)
2006-10-05 18:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by keeping busy, pamper yourself and time.
2006-10-05 18:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋