Thought for sure I was PG this month, I was having a few signs that I could be PG along with being 2 days late then as of the 3rd of this month started spotting and then bleeding now I am just spotting again. Never been late and have not been sick or stressed out. This will be the second month trying. Any other women felt like this? And it's not implantation bleeding because it is too late from the time my husband and I were TTC last month.
2006-10-05 11:20:12 · 2 answers · asked by Jen n CraigB 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
it took me 8 months to conceive my first.......it is an emotional roller coaster....your excited all month....then you get your period and well you know how it is......keep on trying.....enjoy the practice......ive had friends that have been trying for 10 years and finally went to lebanon to try their ivf program and now they have a 14month old daughter and have headed back to try for their 2nd......when you compare to others im delighted in only took me 8 months......with my daughter i conceived first month but i was better prepared for the disappointments.......all good things come to those who wait
2006-10-05 11:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's horrible to do the waiting game with your body, especially when you are trying to get pg. My husband and I played the 'game' you are playing now for about 2 years or so. During the last half, it got worse, as the docs were prescribing up to 4 different hormonal medications.
Finally after it seemed that nothing was working, they dropped the insemination word, and that was it for me. I drew the line there. I stopped taking all the meds, and just literally 'gave up' on having a family. I had convinced myself that it just wasn't meant to be...3 months later, I conceived our baby girl, and will be delivering her in November.
No matter how much you think you are not stressed out, your body is, as well as your subconscious mind. I, like you didn't think I was stressed out, or anything, but until I truly gave up...it wasn't going to happen.
I'm sure you've heard the hundreds of stories of couples who have tried and tried, and then they adopt...and very soon after they conceive...ever wonder why?
The best bet is just to sit down and (in your heart of hearts) tell your husband "When it happens it will, and we will know it was meant to be." And let it go. This is perhaps one of the hardest lessons to learn. It was for me.
2006-10-05 18:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by Heart of Plat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋