The co-worker is apparently your best friend at work for several years. Without you knowing it, the intimate feelings becoming stronger. The thing is, would you give a go to ask him/her out and try to bring the friendship to the next level (Boyfriend/Girlfriend)? If things goes as per planned, no big deal. What about if things goes unexpectedly? Definitely your friendship will not be the same again for most cases. Will you risk it? And why you chose your answer?
2006-10-05 11:17:49 · 15 answers · asked by sliver 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I eventually married my co-worker who dated many of my fellow co-workers before we actually dated.
So I knew all of the dirt and you could say I should have been well informed of the dangers. Many were heartbroken including my best friends at the time. I still gave love a try.
We are still together and have been married for 19 years now. That makes for lots of stories like this one to share which is really the best part!
If it doesn't work out....it wasn't meant to be. Don't take it personal and keep looking for your "one", however they turn up.
2006-10-05 11:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer E 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2006-10-05 11:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got in trouble at work, when my feelings for my former female friend became known. We were friends for three and a half years. It also seemed she was my best friend.
Despite her mature good looks, I really valued her company, friendship, personallity, but I must admit, I did become rather fond of her. It was just a shame, we met at the wrong place. I never met anyone before her and probably never will. That is something I shall have to face a life with love too.
She knew I was interested in her, but the trouble was, she is a loner like me, but was married for 11 years unhappily and I probably was the last man she formed a friendship with.
There was also an age difference of 17 and a half years, and since I was reprimanded, we are no longer friends. From that day to this, I don't have or want any other friends, because I bore and scare the crap out of them.
2006-10-05 11:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Get lost you dumb stupid sheep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting involved with someone you work with is probably a bad idea,if the relationship doesn`t work out your both going to be put in a awkward position of having to be around each other a lot thats not a good thing after you have broken up.Plus you will permanently lose the friendship you once had.It would be better if one of you got another job somewhere else if you two get involved.Best of luck to you
2006-10-05 11:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by ravenmo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the feelings between me and the person became stronger then i would have a private conversation between me and the person and tell them my feelings since we have known each other for a long time. If it doesn't turn out the way you expected then get tell them it was a prank and start laughing at them. The person could be the my Mate, it doesn't make any sense to keep my feelings on the low, i would express them and who knows maybe it will work, i would take the chance.
2006-10-05 11:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ashanofy Frederick Dixon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a boyfriend she has been seeing for seven years and they are no longer engaged or married. feels like she's unsleeping now and smelling the espresso about that asleep on the wheel relationship. Be no longer some thing better than acquaintances till she ends that relationship. feels like she will be searching for the way out. leaping right into a relationship with you isn't a great way out for her. even although i'm confident you're an outstanding capture. She desires to face on her own 2 ft earlier she's adequate for you.
2016-11-26 19:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I'd go for it. Imagine waking up every morning and being excited about going to work. I certainly think I will work better around a person whom I am trying to impress or at least look good infront of. Ofcourse, dont let everyone know coz I can guarantee you, many bosses will object.
If only they knew the benefits!! :-)
2006-10-05 11:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by kevoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that was me. i would go for it. you never know what might happen. but one thing is for sure, you'll find out. its better then going on with your life wondering what might happen. lets just say you don't go for it. she one day well get married and you'll have lost your chance and keep in mind you'll still be wondering. if you guys are good friends now, and if you guys give it a go and things go wrong you'll know that you'll still be friends. take the chance. I'm sure you like her a lot. only question is does she feel the same way. go for it, and good luck.
2006-10-05 11:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by samlha83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No playing where you work out a diaster waiting to happen. Cause if you break up or have a falling out you still get to see the person everyday. There is no where to hide when you work with the person.
2006-10-05 11:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good friends are far and few between I wouldn't give up the friendship mostly because if it doesn't work out not only have you lost a friend but you have to deal with them everyday @ work.
2006-10-05 11:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by sweetliza54 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋