Hey.. Me and my boyfriends one year is this Sunday. Okay I need advise on somthing about a realtionship.. We are compleatly falling apart, he says I need to do somthing to keep him interested.. He said its nothing to do with the s*ex or anything like that but its more like the "little things" that I never do.. Hm well im not very romantic, and I don't know what knd of little sweet things to do... Any ideas??
2006-10-05 11:17:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Don't be afraid to tell him that you care about him tell him how great it is that you are his girl and u would not have it any other way. Some how prove that you care about him. U don't have to buy him nething but you could show that you are interested in him. Try to hang out more, the best thing for you two to do is maybe stay in one night, sit back watch TV, and see how things go.
2006-10-05 11:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is he really worth your time? Do you really I mean REALLY want to change the way that you are just for HIM?? But all in all I guess like you can do the girly thing and call him every five minutes just to tell him you love him, cook for him...you take him out for a change...you treat him...find out what he likes if you dont already and plan your day that way...you know that theres things that you dont like....and he knows you dont like well pick something that you wouldnt mind doing for a few minutes and just that because he likes it for example lets say like on Saturday his fav football team is playing well...tell him YOU are going to watch the game with him...and since you have a bigger TV he should come to your house and watch it there....you see what I mean?? Do something like that....and hey....if doing little things like that doesnt keep him interested them you know what?? DUMP HIS A$$ for reals!! If you're not romantic and he needs someone thats romantic then Im sorry to say it but you two are probably not meant to be!! And so, just take it and move on!!
2006-10-05 11:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by shygrl52 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's messed up he actually told you that. You know guys are supposed to do all that romantic stuff more than girls are supposed to do. If you don't like what he said tell him that and make sure he gets it. If that doesn't work then he probably is better off single. Good luck!!
2006-10-05 12:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by ♠Steffy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him over for dinner, lights with candles and flowers! If you cant take him home,take him to the park where there is only you and him and talk!
Remember if he is not intertes in you anymore, it is a sign that he might have someone else in mind!
2006-10-05 11:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by kathy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it sounds like you have just grown apart or he's trying to sucker you with constant instability. On your part have you been cold or inattentive? No hugs or something? If you haven't done anything then dump him.
2006-10-05 11:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its him and it is the sex guys only think about sex all day long tell him to get over himself and leave him good luck
2006-10-05 12:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like that at one year, there is no reason to stay together
2006-10-05 11:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cant take you as you are, then he is not worth it. A guy that loves you wont change you.
2006-10-05 11:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixchickNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM!,He is ovibously a jerk,becuse he would want you to be who you are!
2006-10-05 11:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up before the year.
2006-10-05 11:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋