but when we see each other the sun comes out----he has been married 7 years- and isn't happy- no we haven't had sex- cause I said no-- but i want him--------------------------------------------------------why a 3rd baby in the midst of misery???????
2006-10-05 11:13:20 · 18 answers · asked by upsuckit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
All I have to say is that Karma is going to bite you in the butt....cut your losses and move on,.
2006-10-05 11:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to get involved with this man? although you may have feelings for him you will be taking on children as well. I am married and will not judge you because their is always 2 party's involved. At the moment you have done the right thing. Do you have children? because they also become involved. If you do not then I suggest you move on and find someone with a different life. And you need to thing if he is not happy with his wife and has a crush on you what will happen if you get together and you have problems will he then have a crush on somebody else?.
2006-10-05 18:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, doesn't make sense. If he isn't happy then why is he still with her and married, and two why would he have a baby on the way? A lot of married men want to feel needed and a new love will do that but they don't want to lose the comfort that they have. Hold out and find a man that is single and willing to make you his sunshine.
2006-10-05 18:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And I guess he had a miserable time getting her pregnant!! For the third time. Don't be a fool, he is using you. The next thing you know, you will be in the midst of misery.
2006-10-05 18:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on her he will cheat on you .If he is not happy he should divorce her first and pay his child support.Then if he still feels the same for you later then go for it.Don`t be the cause for him to break up his family.You should evaluate the reason he is not happy with her.Maybe its because he does not know what he wants.Maybe he does not have a peace inside.He needs to get his house in order first.Don't get caught in the middle i assure you it wont be pleasurable
2006-10-05 18:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by xlhdrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A married woman liked me, and we went all the way. Now she is pregnant and doesn't want anything to do with me. Stay as far away as you can cause you will get hurt.
2006-10-05 18:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes not happy then its not good for the kids either. he needs to get a divorce. My Xwife and I decided to get a divorce after 8 years of constant arguing. It was the best choice for us because niether one of us hates or resented the other person so it has remaind civilized. Believe it or not we are really good friends.
2006-10-05 18:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he isn't happy then he needs to end his relationship the right way before he tries to hook up with you! Just think how you would feel if you were his pregnant wife......chances are, he will treat you the same way he is treating her. Something to think about.
2006-10-05 18:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really?
So let me answer your question with a question.
He was obviously happy with her before to be married for seven years and to want to create a child with her. So say he leaves her for you.
What's preventing him from doing the same thing to you when he's no longer happy with you?
2006-10-05 18:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that exact position. I can't tell you what to do, but be very careful since that situation is a rough one and it will never get solved one way or the other and most likely you will be the one to get hurt and not to mention his children. Ever ask him, why he stays?
2006-10-05 18:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by dmizell1221 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW, I feel for you, but the reality is that he is not yours. It is not fare to you or his wife, he doesn't know want he wants. I think you should walk away form this relationship you wouldn't want to be the one to ruin a family, there's plenty of men out there.
2006-10-05 18:20:09 · answer #11 · answered by Sexy PuertoRican Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋