We lov each other so much...and really want to marry..bt she says if we get married by running away from home or with out the concense of our parents..what willl the ppl say n think abt their family.what shd i do?
2006-10-05 11:00:23 · 5 answers · asked by mukuljack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you guys were to elope, her family would be shamed for good, not only that, they will definately not bless the marriage. Muslim culture is very conservative. Which part of the country is she from? If you read in the news, there are several cases in which when a girl shamed the family (doing what you guys are thinking of doing), the family hunts them down and kill them. It's a matter of pride and preserving the good name of the family. It's a very sick mentality but, there's no way we can stop them. I guess what you can do, is to write a letter to her father, asking for his permission in the hand of marriage of his daughter. Be prepared though, you need to have dowry in handy!
2006-10-05 11:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convert to Islam first. It is the last and complete religion. One must always no matter what honor and respect ones parents, it is a sin not to. If u hurt ur parents ur punishment will be upon u and ur children for generations. This love is a challenge and test for you both. Don't hurt others along the way, do it right and peaceful. Praying will help too.
2006-10-05 18:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by dreamlander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order for you to marry her you must convert to Islam. That's the only way to get her family's aproval.
2006-10-05 18:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other your family should respect that and let you get married
2006-10-05 18:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be carefull. Once you mate she will kill you and eat you. I think it's a female thing. They all do it you know.
2006-10-05 18:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by sweetirsh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋