should i say anything to either of them or just leave it alone?
MAURY IS NOT AN OPTION!!!!
2006-10-05 10:53:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I say just let it be. Have you ever watched King of the Hill?? I am not saying that your Husband is a Dale Gribble, but if no one ever questions it, let it be. Don't make something out of nothing. And Keep your damn pants on at work.
2006-10-05 10:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Shanigirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok so are you saying that you had an affair with your coworker and that your husband is unaware of the situation and now your son is starting to look like your affair partner? I just want to make sure that we are on the same page here.....if so you should probably tell your husband that you have something to confess and just tell him. If it is your coworkers son then you need to tell him as well. If you don't and your son takes after the coworker more and more as he grows up you might end up facing the problem of both of them realizing it and not wanting to talk to you at all!!! Be careful and be honest and Good luck getting yourself out of this pickle!
2006-10-05 17:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Misty K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for a DNA test before I did anything else. Maybe the guy who has been the Dad all this time sees it just as much as you do...He's already the father by being there and in his life. Good luck with this one. I'll say a prayer for you all!
2006-10-05 18:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you husband only after you have your co worker get a DNA test. and it comes back positive. It's important to know who your parents are. There are medical reasons like family history of disease or illness that may be heredity. ANd you husband shouldnt be stuck raising and supporting a child which isnt his.
2006-10-05 17:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there maybe a reason for this?
Only thing I can say is that if you are unsure of the Daddy you can get DNA done.
But there is always leave it alone and dont rock the boat.
2006-10-05 17:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by timberleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could get one or both of them to take a paternity test, if you think you may have conceived from each of them. If the kid turns out to be your husbands, then dont worry about it, if not, then as long as you hadn't been cheating on your husband, he should be fine with it if he really loved you. Good luck and I hope you settle this out!
2006-10-05 17:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by paintlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, is there a reason for him to look like your co-worker instead of you husband? If so then you should set things straight and get a paternity test.
2006-10-05 17:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a lot of problems if you slept with coworker and you husband knows him, but if you did not sleep with coworker then there is nothing to worry. Baby resemble a lot of poeple. I think that you need to worry reading second time your question. Can you live with your secret?
one poet wrote "It is wise not to seek a secret; and honest, not to reveal one".
2006-10-05 18:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Tough one! Good Luck! I think if they both know you were sleeping with both of them, then just take a dna test. Rough waters will be comin.
2006-10-05 17:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by Need Help! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm is his real dad your co-worker?? if not then you have no problem - if so then you do don't say anything i guess but i don't think it's good to keep secrets from your spouse. you won't have a strong relationship if you do... not much to say i think you got yourself into this mess
2006-10-05 17:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by ~serendipity~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋