I have been seeing my husbands cousin for about 2 yrs how do i stop?
2006-10-05 10:53:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
TELL YOU HUSBAND.
2006-10-05 11:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question you need to ask is why would you sleep with your husband's cousin. Alone that is sick it should be no one in your husband family you find attractive. You are like the family trade off if you know what I mean. Believe this if you are sleeping with the cousin other family members know and they are trying to protect your husband who seems to be a good man other than having a Jerry Springer wife. What makes you decide to end it now... the romance thing between you and the cousin has been going on long before now... you feel guilty...you should. Plus all the men in the world to cheat on your husband with you do it with family. You want to end it then grow up and stop being selfish. No don't confess to the husband but just end it nicely...no phone calls to the cousin and no accidentally bumping into him at family functions either. You know how you do it. Plus you need to love yourself better..there can be no man great enough to disrespect yourself for a little bit.
2006-10-05 18:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by phas_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG why your husbands cousin and above all why are you cheating on your Husband in the first place you know that this will not end well dont you also you will more than likely end up by yourself also the joke could be on you,your husband may have put his cousin up to seeing you to create a diversion for him so he could see other women so maybe he knows already and hes content because hes getting what his cousins getting from you from another woman good luck on this one you are his wife but his cousin is FAMILY get the picture.
2006-10-05 23:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy! Try imagining what will happen if your family and the extended family finds out about it. Not only will you be shamed, but think about the cousin, who is by blood related to your husband. Are you so selfish and evil that you would ruin a family just to satisfy yourself? Easy for you, cos all you have to do is divorce and move to another city, and they won't hear from you again. But this goes on to show how selfish you are. Do you really want that? If you don't love your husband anymore, you might as well end it now. Stop playing with fire.
2006-10-05 17:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question because a lot of people don't think ahead before ending an affair.
If you piss off the person they may come back at you and screw up your other relationship.
Sometimes they will tell you that they will tell your spouse and actually force you into being their sexual slave by holding you into the affair or they will tell your spouse.
Two great things work if you are a woman.
If you are in child bearing years tell him that your husband wants to have a kid and you need to not have sex for awhile... then the time appart will allow space and time to let you end it slowly.
The other is to tell the person that you took a medical test and it showed you had a VD and that he should get checked out and that you should not have sex until you figure out want is going on because you don't want to give it to your spouse. Then tell him that you don't want to have sex for a while cause the VD freaked you out a little and you want to see if your spouse has it.
2006-10-05 18:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by CTM 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do the responsible thing and call it QUITS! Meet w/the cousin and tell him it's over before anybody gets hurt!
What are you going to do if you get an STD or better yet pregnant?
If you love this cousin, then divorce your husband and start a new life w/the cousin if not, please LEAVE him ALONE NOW!
2006-10-05 18:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since its your husbands cousin....I hate to tell you but your husband is going to find out.
Tell your husband. It may ruin your marriage. You get what you deserve. But it will be out in the open. If he is a good understanding husband and wants to give you another chance, then count your lucky stars.
2006-10-05 17:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted it to stop you wouldn't be asking how to do it. You would just end it. I agree with the other girl. Give your husband what he deserves and tell him and divorce him. Let him have a life he deserves. You can't string them both along forever. Not good. Good Luck!
2006-10-05 18:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by Need Help! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some morals is a good start, next tell your husband see if he even still wants you. You need to OWN up to your choices your husband has a RIGHT to know how wrong you have done him.
2006-10-05 17:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question? Exert some self-control and stop seeing him. It's that simple. Or maybe you enjoy the whole Jerry Springer-esque relationship you seem to have going on.
2006-10-05 17:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start having an affair with me!
2006-10-05 18:27:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋