I don't see my cousin that much because he lives in Delaware and I live in New Jersey. The last time I saw him was this summer at a family reunion. And I noticed that he has gotten cuter and taller and buff. I think he likes me too because he always wants to hang around with me. Next summer my family is going on a cruise and my cousin is coming! And I want to know what should I say to him to let him know I have feeling for him. Please answer my question seriously!!! And i'm black.
2006-10-05 10:52:27 · 21 answers · asked by zjraheem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is he your first cousin or a distant cousin? If first, then don't go there. If a distant one, then there could be some possibility I suppose. I am going to assume that you are young? In high school maybe? Try to remember in your life to avoid doing things that you will look back on and regret or feel embarrassed about as well as things that might hurt people that you care about (your parents, etc) If you think that pursuing a relationship with a family member will not cause you pain, regret and embarrassment in the future, nor hurt anyone that you care about, then go for it. Ultimately it is your life and your decision.
2006-10-05 11:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not mention your age. I'm not sure what being black has to do with anything. I can tell you this, marriage is forbidden these days between first cousins, so why pursue something that can never be? You choose who you fall in love with, by how much time and thought you give to the person and relationship. If you are young, there will be so many eliglble men come and go in your life there is no need to stress over your cousin. Thinking he is cute is ok, but don't think about more than that.
2006-10-05 18:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
family is family no matter how u look at it. unless u want to end up on jerry springer pleading your case, just leave it alone. And just cuz u black dont make u sound any crazier than if it was a white person. And another thing just cause he wants to hang around u dosent means he like u in that way so to avoid and akwardness dont say anything.
2006-10-05 18:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just nasty!!!! You know it!!! There is no way you should even have an thought to sleeping with your cousin and I know damn well he is not trying to get with you. That is the most craziest thing to me, but then again in a world where men sleep together and women eatting each other I guess anything is possible.
2006-10-05 18:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by mshoward1204 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all he's your cousin, so you probably shouldn't let him know how you feel. Secondly, give it time, the "crush" feeling you have right now, will pass soon. If you're young, you probably get crushes really easy, and that is normal. But give yourself time to get over it, cause most likely that's all it is, a "crush".
2006-10-05 17:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U Black? From One black woman to another, U need help that is your cousin you shouldn't be having those thoughts, Get a Man!........... And not your cousin or brother or Uncle ok? And don't tell no one else your black, it's embarassing.
2006-10-05 17:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by lildemon78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are from New Jersey, NOT KENTUCKY. You can not have a relationship with your cousin, not matter how good the two of you look, but that is not cool. Let your cousin be atrractive and hook him up with a friend.
2006-10-05 17:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by Shanigirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well gurl me too i am black but that doesnt give a reason why you like your own cousin yes my cousin are good lookin doesnt mean i want to go out with them well to answr your qeustion you should really try to keep from being alone with him on a ship so yall wont do anything wrong (not saying you will do anything) so.......... i hope this helps .....good luck gurl
2006-10-05 18:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Brittnee R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every family always has the hot cousin. Still, it is wrong no matter how you spin it. Resist the temptation.
2006-10-05 18:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Leonard W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure this cousin likes you or has a crush on you as you say?
it could be that hes just acting friendly and enjoys hanging out with you.
if you are really sure he has a crush on you and you on him just ignore it before things get worse. hes your COUSIN
2006-10-05 18:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by 2luksat2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋