okay i was dating this boy i loved him and it seemed like we had the perfect relationship come to find out in the 2nd mt of our relationship he cheaped so i broke up with him not wanting to i saw him again and he kissed me me still in love with him i kissed him back and today i was talking to him and he said he has changed he said that he loved me and he wanted to be back with me i said nothing because i didnt know what to say i havent moved on and he havent moved on so he says he just raising his child the child of the chyck he cheated with but i love him i swear i do so what am i to do he wants to be 2gether and i want to be 2gether but how do i know if hes 4real
2006-10-05 10:48:26 · 8 answers · asked by Taye 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give him a second chance and see if he's for real, everyone deserves a second chance. So just see how it works out. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-05 11:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ashanofy Frederick Dixon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay 1st of all use punctuation...commas, periods, exclamation points. It is almost impossible to read what you have written. That is probably why you haven't gotten any answers. Anyway, lose the zero find yourself a hero... guys like this do NOT deserve a 2nd chance..also you cannot truely love someone in 2 months!! You hardly know each other in that short of a time.. Here is a major clue do you want to have a relationship w/ someone who is NOT responsible? FIrst of all he cheated , STUPID OF HIM, no girl deserves that. It is the most horrible feeling to be cheated on...2nd of all he knocked up some random chick!!! Does he know what condoms are? You know know he has unprotected sex... do you want to end up w/ a STD or pregnant yourself? I think not... Girl get yourself together.. go out a find a good man.. could you actually ever trust this guy again? I think not, AGAIN!!! You are a great person and you don't need a stepchild from the time when you got cheated on!!! You would probably resent that baby & it would be a constant reminder of his thoughtless, selfish & irresponsible actions!!!
2006-10-05 11:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by panamared12345 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my experience.. A cheater is always a cheater..
My ex bf.. who I was with for 4 and half years... Kept cheated on me... and I forgive him... but I couldnt take it the 4th time.. when we broke up I found out about the times he had sex in Snooker club.. and local pub's toilet with girls he didnt even know.. Dont ask how I found out cause I cried for days and couldnt accept it.. It wasn't nice.
Dont go back to the guy who cheats.. he would cheat again.. if he love u really he can only see u and no one else.. Believe me.. My current boyfriend doesnt even spend a minute away from me even we have been together for a year and half now.
2006-10-05 10:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by * 271805086182 * 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to be sure is test. Give him a month to change and if he doesn't then you know he is playing games. Guys and the way they show their emotions are tricky so you never know for sure. Just be cautious and when you are 'testing' him, don't hold your breath and get in to deep. Good luck!
2006-10-05 10:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Rylie's Momma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only way to for sure know he is for real is if you give him a chance. but be cautious, you have every right to be afraid of him doing it again.
2006-10-05 10:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by stoned 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your parents not to let you use the computer again until you're in Junior High.
2006-10-05 10:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by mreed72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes for real,if hes doing this just for you,and saying a luv you alot, then all he wants to do in his life is to be with you.
2006-10-05 10:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mica Claro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know. Life is full of uncertainties. Take a chance.
2006-10-05 11:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋