how do you get started doing this
2006-10-05 10:46:49 · 8 answers · asked by Texas_born 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you want to have sex with anyone other than your wife? Are you really sure you are comfortable with your wife having sex with other men too?
2006-10-05 11:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, my wife and I have been in the lifestyle for several years. Start by reading the FAQ at The Swingers Board. There is lots of great, honest information there about swinging, how to decide if it's for you, and how to get started if you decide it is.
2006-10-07 01:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step is to have open, honest discussions with your partner, you both have to be on the same page in terms of what you are hoping to get out of the lifestyle, your comfort levels, and rules.
I wrote a series of articles on setting rules for swinging you may want to look over - they are specifically designed for use in a conversation between partners beginning in the lifestyle.
The articles may be viewed at:
http://swinglesonline.com/forum/viewforum.php?f=1
The best way to get into the lifestyle is to be a part of the swinging community.
One of the best ways to do this it to participate in discussion forums.
You have to bring value to the discussion, and participate as a member of the community - be yourself, be honest, and contribute to the community.
If you behave yourself, and become a member of the community, you will begin to get inquiries, and eventually invitations.
Two I recommend are:
http://www.theswingersforum.com
http://www.swingersboard.com
You should also join some sites, there are several that we belong to including:
http://www.swinglesonline.com - FREE
http://www.swappernet.com/default.asp?re... - FREE TRIAL
http://www.swinglifestyle.com/?signup=no... - FREE WITH LIMITED ACCESS
http://www.sexyads.net?rs=4017&bn=71... - FREE TRIAL
Make sure you complete your profile honestly and as completely as possible.
Spend some time on the site understanding the culture of that site - each has it's own feel.
Visit some clubs in your area - there is a really good list of swingers clubs available at http://www.theswingersource.com...
Make sure you reach out to the club owners or managers prior to going, go over the rules of the club carefully, and make sure you understand the etiquette of swinging (again, the discussion forums will help you there).
When you attend a club or party, do not over drink!
Good luck to you!
2006-10-09 12:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by northindycpl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WAS for 8 years "in my past marriage" I still go to clubs not active in the lifestyle right now. We got started by joining a swing club.
2006-10-05 17:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU BET
we started online about 5 years ago. then you find your local groups
2006-10-09 15:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tequila Gypsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just the other night my girlfriend told me her man is into that and she is going to try it with him they live in north carolina i guess there is web sites you can go to or start your own google it good luck
2006-10-05 18:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by teresa d 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are interest in getting a disease is a good option
2006-10-05 18:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do a search online and you will find your answer.
2006-10-05 18:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by carzone28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋