well not really, but i get aroused and start viewing life as a competition. why do i always have to be the starlight?? how do i stop??
2006-10-05 10:44:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Just be normal and be yourself. Get over it.
2006-10-05 10:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen H 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was just like you until recently.
Then I started to learn ... Life is not a competition. The measure of your self-worth is not how you compare to someone else, or how many people admire or "choose" you. In fact, these comparison and admiration games are often a result of insecurity. You need external approval to validate yourself.
But the truth is so much more freeing. You are a wonderful person, win or lose, shine or shadows. The best thing to work toward is to develop yourself into a whole person. One with enough self-esteem to not need to be approved by others.
2006-10-05 17:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by rhiannon2797 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you being so competitive about? What are the problems with the people you hang with? Why do you want to be the starlight? Ask your self those questions.
2006-10-05 17:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by - -Ladii TK- - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may help to remember there is always going to be someone prettier, faster, smarter, funnier, etc... than you. it can't be helped. get comfortable and secure with who you are. read some self-help books on self-esteem. some competitive felings are not only normal, but also healthy. they are what get us ahead and inspire us to reach for higher goals. but again, there always will be someone, somewhere, who is a better dancer or better writer or better whatever. let them be who they are. find what you are best at and be who YOU are.
2006-10-05 17:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by ibdayz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a part of life. No stopping it. Jealousy makes you worker harder. Just don't let it get out of hand.
2006-10-05 17:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are young age wil help you try some self control..its hard but everyone is not trying to compete with you.
2006-10-05 17:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by sportlvr45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody sometimes feels that way on life
2006-10-05 17:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do it because you're inwardly convinced you're a loser. Be gentle with yourself.
2006-10-05 17:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by U. N. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all are sort of every now and then should don't let him know it and your doing Great:) :)
2006-10-05 17:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL,GAIN BOUT HUNDRED POUNDS THEN YALL FEEL BETTER
2006-10-05 17:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by FAT CHICKS RULE!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋