If a lesbian is always looking at u (and u r a girl), then when u look she looks at other way, then when u say hi to her she gets really exited like with no reason. She goes talking to u and starts like huging u and asking u stupid questions just for start a conversation like: did u eat?? and she start rubbing ur belly, does it mean she likes u, and what can u do to make her stop with out making her feel bad???
2006-10-05 10:41:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think she may have a crush on you but to be polite clearly state that you are not a lesbian. Tell her that her touches are unwelcomed but we can be friends.
2006-10-05 10:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look just look they other way and wait it out eventually she will find a new shiny toy to go after and about the tummy rubbing just ask her nicely to stop or claim some sickness to your belly like you have cramps or something. She will get over you just wait.
2006-10-05 10:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by LEAH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about making her feel bad... straight, lesbian, whatever, no one should treat you like that if you don't want them to. Just come out and tell her, "I am sorry but that sort of contact makes me uncomfortable, please stop." If shes a decent person, she will understand and back off. If that doesn't work, be more stern with her about it the 2nd time. And if that still does not work, be aggressive and tell her flat out, "I told you to stop, and you are still making me uncomfortable, If you continue, I will report you to the police for assault".
2006-10-05 10:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, YES, ANYONE who behaves like that likes you regardless of whether it's a she, a he or an it. If you don't feel the same way, deal with it in the same manner as you would if it was a boy. Let her know you're not interested. This isn't rocket science.
2006-10-05 10:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont see any dishonest. they are going to a hockey recreation as acquaintances. in case you favor to bypass out to a hockeu recreation, why no longer bypass with both of them. If no longer some thing is going on yet frinds they wont concepts. Be prepared tp pay your man or woman way though. i wish you supply her freedom to have acquaintances.
2016-10-16 03:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's intense. You should have stopped when she began to rub your stomach. Just say it as if she was a guy flirting with you. She's a still a person.
2006-10-05 10:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not a "lesbian problem". It is a straight problem... the problem is you are straight and she wants you. You just have to remember she is a person too. Handle it with care so you do not hurt her feelings.
2006-10-05 11:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by 2crooked 2b straight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her
im strictly direct current,not alternating current
ac/dc
where as it may be she goes both ways,who knows
but thats about the nicest way of placing it.
or set down and simply say i like you as a person,but i dont get romantic with other females,im sorry.
2006-10-05 10:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by pearlblackharley@yahoo.com 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... That is a tough one... If she likes you and she is a geek than your going to have a hart time not hurting her feelings... Because that kind of what she sounds like.... Maybe you should tell her to calm down and to stop rubbing anything that belongs to you... She sounds kind of clingy...... Good luck.
2006-10-05 10:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey!! Just be honest or if your afraid tell her she not your type or lie and kiss someone randomly.. I do it to guys all the time(kissing random guys at the bars of course).
2006-10-05 12:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋