we love each other very much. how many time we try to get apart but still we fall in each other arms again and again.i want to marry her but she want if i will become free. i want to file an annullment to my wife so that i could marry this girl that i love most..what will i do?
2006-10-05 10:39:39 · 17 answers · asked by renzo888 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Excuse me sir, you cannot get an anullment after making 2 kids. You can only get a divorce.
You say you love her... and she loves you... To me it looks like you don't care for each other. She doesn't care if you or your children get hurt in the process. So don't tell me she loves you. She just has cravings for you sorry behind. When you are free she might just change her mind. Now you are "safe" play. Of course, there is no way of checking unless you try an d find out. Realize what you are getting yourself into.
An easy way out of "falling into each other's arms": change your phone number, never ever pick up her calls. Don't feel you have an obligation to explain - she was trying to steal someone's husband and father of someone else's kids.
You will miss your kids if you divorce your wife.
2006-10-05 11:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a vow to your wife. You have two children that will never have the opportunity to grow up with their father in the home. Many girls that grow up without a father become promiscuous because they seek the males attention they never got from their dad because he wasn't around. What kind of girl are you in love with that sleeps with a married man? Are you sure this is really love? What happens when all the excitement of sneaking around is gone and the nagging begins? You cannot get an annullment unless you and your wife did not consumate your marriage, which with two kids you did. Do you really want to throw away your family?
2006-10-05 10:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have about as much love for the other woman as you do your wife and children! This is stupid. That's not love, it's LUST that you have for each other. If she truly LOVED you, she would have some concern and respect for your family and the consequences to them should you choose to leave them. If you truly LOVED the other woman, you would want her to have a man who truly is devoted to only her.
Besides, how successful could a marriage of two adulterers possibly be? What makes her think that you will be more faithful to her than you are to your current wife and children? She's having an affair with a married man. So you pretty much know what her moral standards and respect for the sanctity of marriage is. Do the math, dude, and start thinking with your big head.
2006-10-06 10:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you thing is right, remember what goes around comes back twice as bad. An annulment? how long have you two been married? You need to seek some professional help.. soon before you ruin more lives..
2006-10-05 10:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by carpet man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"You fall into each others arms" What, is there a hole between you that you keep tripping over?? You are a lying, cheating, sorry, waste of air & space. You will be doing your wife & kids a favor by leaving. Then she can find a REAL man, who will be a GOOD husband and a GREAT father to your kids. They obviously don't have a good male role model in their lives now!
2006-10-05 10:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by grrl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your an idiot!!!
Oh course she loves you - she doesn't have to do your laundry, cook your meals or iron your clothes.
If you leave your wife and marry this girl - then in a year or two there will be another "love of your life".
Stay put, stop seeing her and appreciate what you've got!!
2006-10-05 10:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
so she won't marry you when you become free, you want to leave your wife and kids, guess what, your wife should leave you, make you pay the child support,then your girlfriend will leave you out in the dry too. sounds like she just wants something that don't belong to her. get your life together.
2006-10-05 13:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by mamma bird 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one why'd you cheat on your wife. you r very so not right.you are a ahole.two you should tell that girl she needs to move on because your married. apologize to her and let go.also if your not happily married let your wife know that you want a divorce not a annullment.keep contact with your children so u don't hurt them more then you already have.my honest opinion make a choice soon before matters get worse....
2006-10-05 10:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by nojpsars 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should really search your heart and soul before making any commitment,to this . is it love or just lust? think about your 2 kids. how you will change their lives forever. if this girl can come in and destroy a family,what makes you think she would not do it to you when the next best thing comes along.
2006-10-05 10:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by wisdom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're an @SShole....this isn't Young & the Restless. Grow up..your behavior is unacceptable. When you marry your new "girl" I hope she realizes you'll probably do the same to her....or even better KARMA. She'll do it to you. Your poor children. What a lousy example you're setting.
2006-10-05 10:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋