2006-10-05 10:36:35 · 5 answers · asked by sexy_mama765 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
i think it's because some of us are just really shy..and we are scared of rejection.... same goes for guys who feel it is hard to talk to girls. it's really not.. u just have to have an open mind, be confident about yourself (and that means ur Looks as well as your Mind). think of it this way.. if u know u look pretty.. :) ... and u know that u are knowledgable... :)...AND u know that u are funny.... then how could u be uncomfortable talking to ANYONE?? but if u are insecure, and scared of what people think of u, it is going to limit your actions, ur responses, how u feel about urself. so i feel that the 1st thing is to work on Yourself first. Exercise; get ur hair styled; play w/ makeup til u have a "good" look for yourself; get u some Flattering clothes. then, work on your Mind: study harder, start some hobbies, keep an open mind, ask questions, LEARN. after that, work on Relationships: w/ family, then friends, eventually strangers. the more u KNOW the more u can discuss with others..and the less u will be "unconfident" (cuz u know u look pretty, u are working out and wearing cute clothes!) ...it sounds funny, but really, u'r doing 2 in 1.. taking care of urself in general, and also making urself attractive to others cuz u are fully functional, good looking AND smart...u know? what guy wouldn't like that?
good luck~~ :)
2006-10-05 10:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two words: potential rejection.
2006-10-05 17:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by fried_twinkie1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not hard, you're just nervious. guys are simple creature. just smile, laugh, nod....just pay them attention.
2006-10-05 17:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by teri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is it hard?
2006-10-05 17:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um it's not.
2006-10-05 17:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by Katie Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋