what can i do, it would hurt me so much to see this person with someone else after everything we've been trough. What can i do??
2006-10-05 10:21:27 · 4 answers · asked by nhng06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get over him
2006-10-05 10:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Santa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say take some time out and do some things for you. If it wasn't meant to be you have to let it go, as hard as it maybey. You will get over him in time, and he'll probably always have a special place in your heart, but i wanted worry to that extent on what he's doing. For whatever reason you guys aren't together, if it helps talk to someone close, anything is better then worrying about something you can't control.
2006-10-05 17:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by kizzykay86 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you apart pain. I hate love.”
Neil Gaiman
2006-10-05 17:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gets over you then it wasn't meant to be. You can't hold on to false hope. Love yourself & move on. If it's hard to see him w/someone else, then don't look.
2006-10-05 17:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by pattysez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋