what should i do? i am dependent financially on him and live in a third world country. i do not love him but he loves our children. he is not their father but does not know it.
2006-10-05 10:17:57 · 14 answers · asked by farzana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When he left after our marriage to work abroad, he did not consumate our marriage and told his brother to do the needful. it is my daily shame.
2006-10-05 20:28:26 · update #1
If you don't love him, then it does not sound like you have any hurt feelings behind him leaving, its just your concern for the children.
Will he offer to pay child support? If not, see what your rights are as far as getting him to pay childsupport even though he is not here in Third world country.
Good Luck, and stay positive!
2006-10-05 10:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to concentrate on yourself for a bit. Then maybe you could look for a job on your own. Seems like he's trying to Tease you from the finances. This is a subject for your lawyer to consider. can U consult some lawyer 2 help?...... Document everything and seek legal help! n 2 find Out what hre thinks abt Ur Children
whats Ur Qualification?can u do some job.....Time 4 u to b financially Strong.......Can U afford 2 live with a person U know is Intrested in some other woman n having affair....Its better 4 u 2 Leave him/////i know thats Not Gud 4 ur Children.......they need both of u.....The last Thing u can do is 2 Call Ur Parents Or Bro n ask them 2 talk with Him......N try 2 find Out what he thinks abt The children...?does he want them 2 live with u Or him?u can Go 2 Ur parents Home 2......i hope they lll gonna help u...If Ur marriage was arrange then u hv the right 2 talk with Ur parents
Best Of Luck!!! My prayers r with u.....
2006-10-05 20:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you come to know that your hubby asked his brother to play his part ? Its too late now. You should have taken Tallaq from him & got married to his brother to have legel marriage.
Now also if his brother agrees to marry you then you can go for tallaq & marry him. Any your husband is not trust worthy.
2006-10-06 05:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops, the best thing to do, is let him go. Discuss child support with him. (Not that he should be paying for somebody elses kids). Or claim welfare to support yourself. Do the right thing.
2006-10-05 17:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You repent for what you did thats it....... I dont find anything wrong in what your husbands did .did you think about your husband when you went around with your brother in law so just repent findyour own way.....
2006-10-06 04:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by priyaedesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your way back to the USA as quickly as you can with your children.
2006-10-05 17:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange Relationship's...........hmmmmmmmmm
2006-10-06 06:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uve played yr game... now its his turn... DONT TELL HIM ABT THE KIDS...cuz if u do.. he will definitely hook on tht reason and leave u and yr kids alone hanging there with no money
2006-10-05 20:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep hanging on, store as much money as you can into a coffee can, when you have enough money get out of there
2006-10-05 17:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It needs to remake its life and to look for what pra is better all.
2006-10-05 18:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by Alda F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋