I have a World HIstory teacher that I think is really cute. He is really nice and never yells at anyone. I am not sure what to do about it. I know that nothing can happen because he is married and there is a 13 year age difference. What should I do about this? Should I continue liking him? Or is it a waste of my time? Before you say it I am not going to find someone my age because I don't like dating. I know that nothing will ever happen betwenn me and my teacher but what should I do about this?
2006-10-05 10:15:34 · 28 answers · asked by actresst22 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should really try and get over it. Enjoy his looks and being in his class but that is it. Right now, where I live, one of my teachers is in jail for having sex with his students. Several of my classmates were involved. The teacher was caught and so were the students. Just be careful and keep your little crush to yourself
2006-10-05 10:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by amanda725_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...i don't c any huge problem just as long as it is keep as a crush, but if the teacher ever started acting back then thats when the problem will arise. As u know, he has went to school and invested a lot of money so he can b a teacher and that would b like throwing it all away. Its just not worth it, but if it would make the class go by quicker then just day dream about him.
2006-10-05 17:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by megcheeker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a thought, you can go for it, tell him, and be like a puppet in his hands, you will break your own heart, hurt yourself. You should be able to know your limits ... Especially when it's concerning older men, because whatever you do you will never earn the respect of a man 13yrs older then you ... If he plays along with you he will be just using you. Second, the guy is married. I'm not saying anything, you can probably go to bed with him, but you will never earn his respect. Forget about it.
2006-10-05 17:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Nothing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are experiencing adolescent infatuation. It happens all too often. The only one to blame is Mother Nature. You already know that there is nothing you can do about it. Concentrate on your studies, and you will eventually outgrow it.
You are better off than I was. All of my teachers were old, ugly, dull, and some did not smell too good.
2006-10-05 17:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by regerugged 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, let me tell you my similar story.
It was some 5 years ago, when I first entered in the class of our new english teacher.
At that time I was a bit loosen by the long summer vacation, so I laughed and chatted with others and he looked at me with annoyed eyes.
I`m not sure really how it happened, with the time I guess. I started to like him more and more... I watched him speak, notice his minor reactions and gestures, his grimaces... listening the tones of his voice, observing him. I rarely missed his classes and waited them with such an excitement.
At the end of this year, when the next summer came I just couldn`t get him out of my head. I was thinking about him so much, recalled him in my visual memmory, and I started to have him in my intimate fantasies - I imagined us kissing, holding arms, hanging around, hugging and also engaging in sexual relations.
Untill I realised that I am undiscribable in love with this man.
Then it was a long period of suffering generally ...
but one day I spoke with a woman in one chat, I told her my teary love story, as I usually did with all the people I talked.
But she listened to me, and then told me - well, if you trully love him, then go - don`t waste this love - and tell him, open your soul infront of him and show him your love.
"Follow your heart" she told me.
Another summer passed, with me still burning alive with love. I thought a lot, I was unsure, I asked my self "do I trully love him?"
and I also tried to find a reasonable expanation for my feelings. But there wasn`t such. Then I decided that I want to live through this love, to feel it and share it with him. I decided to follow my heart, because I loved him!
You see, I was troubled by qwestions like "what is he`s married" and so on as well, but despite those social issues, I followed my heart. I was 18 and he was 40 years older than me.
But, what boundaries are there for true love?
So one day I waited until everybody was outta the class room, I went in and told him that I feel love for him.
His initial reaction was nothing, he looked at me and told me "what?", but long before this act of mine, I have noticed something in the way he sometimes looked at me in classes as well. I just knew that the love was mutual. Whatever the reason!
He asked me how can I love him? I told him that I don`t know.
He also asked me if I was sure.. and I told him that I waited long enough to be sure.
Then another long, lonely and full of thoughts summer passed.
In the begging of the next and last school year, he looked for me and asked me if I still feel this love, which I did.... and we made a date.
And we had a wonderfull relationship for two years afterwards.
Follow your heart!
2006-10-05 17:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ateviel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, are you every going to laugh at yourself about this some day. Write all this down in your diary. It will be a great way to bring about the grins every time you read it in the near future.
2006-10-07 16:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET IT GO. Don't risk breaking up a marriage/family because of something that is fleeting with you. Finish his class and don't take anymore from him so you aren't tempted. Try to occupy yourself with other things that will help you get over this... help with a charity (this gets your mind off yourself), take up a hobby, exercise, etc.
2006-10-05 17:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by mommyofmegaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so you said you understand that nothing can happen between you (i spose you realise he could go to jail if it did)....well that's the first step - accepting that. then move on. thats all you can do. find a distraction, even if it's not another guy, because as nothing can happen then there's no point in dwelling on it. sorry.
2006-10-05 17:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by sky_blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it's wrong liking your teacher, but it's just a crush. He has a wife and kids, I don't think that he waants to loose that and his job. I use to think that my art teacher was soooooooo sexy but that was it. There will be other people out there that will take your mind off of him....
2006-10-05 17:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by Angel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue to be attractracted to his kind self!
but dont' try to presude anything cuz that would be a waste of your time!
i would leave it alone not because of his age because he is MARRIED!
maybe ask him if he has a brother or something!~ lol
but that just sounds despreate!
2006-10-05 17:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋