There is a nasty girl in one of my math classes. My friend is in the class with me. The evil girl never liked me. I don't know why but it doesn't matter. All this year so far she has made comments. She said to my friend about me " well she knows i HATE her, I'm only mean to people I HATE" Its so immature. My friend sits by me and this is constantly staring at us. My friend hates her because of things she has done this year. How do I get this girl to shut up and quit staring? Thanks in advance
2006-10-05 10:06:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I ignore her and never comment back as I don't want to waste air or time on her
2006-10-05 10:10:41 · update #1
You just have to act like she isn't there.
2006-10-05 10:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You cannot control other people's actions or reactions, only your own!! So, continue as you are, acting and reacting in a mature manner. Ignore her, don't feed into her comments by reacting to them or commenting on them. She sounds like someone who doesn't even deserve a single second of your time or your thoughts. It's a total pain in the a** to have no choice to be in their company (math class) but you do have a choice in how to behave.
You just keep being yourself, mature, kind and in control. It'll drive her crazy!!
2006-10-05 10:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by seaelen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Totally ignore her and her comments. She is just wanting attention from somewhere and obviously she is getting it at school. If you haven't purposely done something to piss this girl off, then I wouldn't worry about it. If she must stare, simply look back at her and smile and say hi. She will get annoyed eventually and find someone else to hate.
2006-10-05 10:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
girl, she won't ever shut up and stop staring!!! EVER!!! that's what hateful girls do.
however, YOU on the other hand, should never, ever let what OTHER people (as hateful as they may be) disrupt your wonderful life for even a second. that's how they get the nerve to do what they do. they feed off the attention you give them.
so, i'm sure you're a BEAUTIFUL, TALENTED, GIFTED, INTELLIGENT, & CREATIVE young Lady.... you're above the crap from this 'little girl'.... invest your energy in more important things like your education, relationships, and TRUE SISTAHOOD!!!! people like her are bringing extinction to those valuable assets. you are FIERCE and a FORCE to be reckoned with..... ACT LIKE IT!!!!! i wish u well and be your BEST!!!!
peace & blessings, sis!
2006-10-05 13:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by christian.renee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treat her exactly the way that you would rather she treat you. Ignore the nastiness. She'll get the message eventually and either give up or realize she has no reason to hate you after all.
2006-10-05 10:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Don't stoop down to her level. She sounds very immature. Just ignore her and if she stares at you then look at her with a look of "What the heck is your problem?" Don't let her get to you.
2006-10-05 10:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by BeeFree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shame U can't wear a pair of mirror shades coz trust me, stare back.
What have U got 2 lose if she knows she can intimidate U like she is at the moment.
Give her a taste of her own medicine, she'll soon go off the idea.
2006-10-05 10:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about her she is probably jealous of you. Just check her and let her know that she is no better than you. Then ignore her the more you do the more she will get angry and no so interested, just be the bigger person.
2006-10-05 10:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by Kieanna A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for this situation I would suggest being super nice to her. It will really irratiate her (which is awesome) but it makes you look like the more mature and kind person you are. If that doesnt work, ask your teacher to move your seats, good luck sweety
2006-10-05 10:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
ive gone through the same thing in highschool, i have no idea why on earth they do that. my only theory is: jealousy. im not the bitchy type, nor the type who looks for a cat fight, but if someone rings my bell one too many times (guy OR girl) i flip. and its happened...yes in high school. like i said i never got in a cat fight, but i have gotten in word to word confrontation with one or two girls. how did i do it? i broke out on them straight up in the face and i guess it worked well since i was the straight A, sweet, kind little girl, who wouldnt hurt a fly...and seeing me like kinda freaked them out and that was the end of that.
so im not telling you to begin a cat fight or anything, im just telling you to confront the girl and tell her whatever floats your boat. ofcourse nothing stupid, but something straight and forward.
2006-10-05 10:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by sueet2b 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She probable doesn't like you because she is jealous of you. Tell your teacher that she is harrassing you in class and also the next time she says something just ask your friend "did you hear something , o it must have been the wind".
2006-10-05 10:10:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋