and she knows it bothers me. but does it anyway. just to piss me off...
2006-10-05 10:05:38 · 15 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to break them apart as soon as today! Or in no time you'll find yourself alone, without a best friend...
2006-10-05 10:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by FashionSuika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her get your goat. Act like it doesn't bother you. Smile and say hello. Kill her with kindness.
Another great way to get even is to invite your friend to go somewhere - like say, the mall, for ice cream or whatever. Then invite the person that you hate to join you. Here is an illustration.
You - Hey Matt, I was just about to head to the mall and catch a movie. Would you and Josey like to come with me? It's my treat.
She will wonder why you are being nice all of the sudden, and either realize that she can't get to you anymore, or try all the harder to get to you. When this happens, you have to be the nicest to her that you have ever been to anyone, EVER.
Trust me, this works like a charm.
2006-10-05 17:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by sos_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's a person I hate the most and she starts hanging out with my best friend I wouldn't hangout with the person. I wouldn't call the person who made friends with my best friend for cursing at me and telling me I am a mama's girl. If your best friend starts acting like this person you hate a lot then don't hangout with your best friend but It depends how it will work out between the three of you.
2006-10-05 17:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by April Ann Codon Cruz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you have found out the realization that your best friend really isn't, your best friend. Ignore them, find someone else to hang out with. After this lesson you would have gained maturity and got rid of 2 headaches at the same time.
2006-10-05 17:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then that person is not a good friend if she hangs out with the person you hate and she knows it pisses you off. I say ditch both of them. Unfortunately, girls tend to do that in...I'm guessing middle school/ freshman-sophomore year? Usually they do that for popularity but in truth, your friend is only hurting herself.
2006-10-05 17:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by thebodyelectric! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your best friend explain it to her one of two things will happen she will either understand or you'll lose your friendship and if that happens she wasn't a friend to start with. or there is one more possibly solution maybe the person you hate isn't as bad as you think and there may just may be a possibility you could become friends to.
2006-10-05 17:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by head cook 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep ypur enemies closer than your friends because that person could be setting up a trap. She's probably trying to get under your skin. Talk to your best friend about it. The enemy of your enemy is your friend. The gurl is probably plotting something agianst you, but check it out carefully before exploding because maybe thats what she is tying to do.
2006-10-05 17:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're letting her get to you... and this is exacly what she wants. Try talking to your besrfriend about the situation, letting them know how you feel about them hanging out with your enemy. You cannot control who your friend hangs out with. And your friend has no reason not to hang out with that girl. Try to compromise with your friend about the time spent between you two... see how that goes...
2006-10-05 17:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by Chocolate_Flayva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to get her back start hanging out with her best friend and if that doesn't work then just make plans with your bestfriend first so you guys will still hang out
2006-10-05 17:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scream and make new mates....personally i have diff groups of mates so that if u fall out with one there are always others to hang round with =D
2006-10-05 17:08:02 · answer #10 · answered by Ellis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋