If a lesbian is always looking at u (and u r a girl), then when u look she looks at other way, then when u say hi to her she gets really exited like with no reason. She goes talking to u and starts like huging u and asking u stupid questions just for start a conversation like: did u eat?? and she start rubbing ur belly, does it mean she likes u, and what can u do to make her stop with out making her feel bad???
2006-10-05 10:01:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hun,speak to her about it.Explain to her that you are straight and it makes you uncomfortable for her to do that.It is not bad to say that,it doesnt mean you are against it you are just standing up for yourself.Tell her,you wouldnt mind being friends,but you are not interested in females as anymore than that.Do not say it in a judgmental way,just say it as if you are explaining to her.Good luck.
2006-10-05 10:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm Id say it does sound like she has a crush on u. BUT it doesnt necessarily mean she means anything by the small touches. Just let her know that u dont like being touched- when she starts to touch u- move a little so she misses u! That will or should give her the hint u dont want her hands on u. If it doesnt work just tell her nicely u feel uncomfortable when anyone touches you! Noone has a right to touch you and be in your space unless u invite them in!
2006-10-05 21:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can emphasize how you enjoy her FRIENDSHIP.
As far as touching you, you can tell her, "I know that you (rub my belly, touch me, etc...) out of friendship and mean it in a nice way, but I have to tell you because as a friend I know you would want to know that I don't like ANYONE to touch my (belly, arm, head, etc..)."
You sound like a kind and understanding person. Just take the view that what she does she does b/c she likes you, so react from that point. Be honest, but in a kind way. If she doesn't get the message you will need to be more direct, but you can still be kind about it.
Good luck!
2006-10-05 17:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by seaelen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could mean that she likes you but she is touching you in a way that makes you uncomfortable (rubbing your belly) and could be sexual harrassment. Ask her about her intentions and let her know that you are straight and you do like her as a friend but you would be much more comfortable with a lot less touchy feely.
2006-10-05 17:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to her that you are straight. I have a lot of gay friends and if you just explain to her that you are straight she'll stop hitting on you. Im almost positive about that. Just say it in a friendly tone. Just know though that if she doesnt get mad at you gay friends are the best friends to have because theyll never let you down. Or at least its that way with gay guys. I dont know just be honest.
2006-10-05 17:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by sweetangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK I CAN UNDERSTAND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HER FEELINGS OR COME ON TOO HARSH OR WHATEVER BOO HOO... BUT COME ON DO YOU LIKE IT???...YOU NEED TO BE STRAIGHT UP WITH THE GIRL SHE'S NOT EVEN A FRIEND IS SHE??IF SHE WAS YOUR FRIEND I THINK SHE WOULD RESPECT YOU ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT YOU ARENT LIKE THAT BUT IF I WERE YOU I'D TELL HER STRAIGHT UP AND SAY "GET THE HECK OFF OF ME IM NOT GAY"!!!!!!!!THATS WHAT I'D DO THATS JUST HOW I AM I'LL TELL YOU LIKE IT IS......
2006-10-05 18:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by MADNESS!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that's not ur lifestyle or ur sexual preference.Tell her she will be good as ur friend,and ur only interested in men.
2006-10-05 17:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by Sister Queen Mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show up with a guy on your arm. She'll get the idea.
2006-10-05 17:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
be honest. it might suck but do you really want to be harrased/annoyed forever? just make sure to tell her you arnt attracted to her but thats not yours or hers fault. make sure its nice though. goodluck
2006-10-05 17:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by i am the dream u r the dreamer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that your sry but u dont like her or just start talkin about her i know its mean but if she knows that u dont like her she will probably back off.
2006-10-05 17:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by kaykay5698 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋