Me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile and we are getting serious. He told me he loved me and i told him the feeling was mutual some time after. I met his dad and his brothers, his dad seems really cool and they act like they get along very well. I spoke to my mom about this guy, because she noticed how serious we are getting. She wanted me to ask my boyfriend if him and his father want to go bowling one day, and he just went hysterical. He said he can go but not his dad, and that he doesn't trust his dad too tough. I told him his dad seemed nice, and he told me that i know nothing about him. I have noticed lately that his dad is a little too friendly with me, but i brushed it off. I know only my guy would know the answer to this, but don't you guys think that seems a little strange?
Oh and just for the record he's 27 and I'm 20.
2006-10-05 09:59:28 · 7 answers · asked by kizzykay86 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, your boyfriend knows his father better than you do. Men are like that, when it comes to sex and women, loyalty and intergrity goes out the window. You can have a relationship with the family, but NEVER be alone with the father or the brothers. Don't try and get all cozy with them, it's not appropriate in any case anyway. It may be strange to you, but thats what happens. Its sad your bf can't trust his dad, but at least he's smart and mature about it. And if you love your boyfriend, you will learn to trust what he says.
2006-10-05 10:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Belly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People will always have issues with their parents. It doesn't mean that the dad was hitting on you. He may have just been being nice. You DON'T know him. Your boyfriend does! If my boyfriend asked me to bring my mother or father to go bowling with one of his parents, I would say no too. My parents and I don't have the best relationship. They don't know the real me. You may have a great relationship with your parents, but don't expect him to. He will let you know whats up with it eventually, but for now, don't jump to conclusions.
2006-10-05 17:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by laislinns 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously your b/f knows what his dad is all about. Don't push the issue and just stick to your b/f 's side when in the presence of his dad.
2006-10-05 17:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by lostonehere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummm, a bit confusing, but since your boyfriend introduced you to his dad and brothers he must be close to his family. and the "hysterical" reaction he had when you asked him about going bowling with your mom and his dad is not right. my point is, in the long term i see possible family problems - my opinion is, this guy is not the right guy for you.
2006-10-05 17:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it seems like his dad is a little freak that don't know how to get his own gurl. He probably have runned after your boyfriend's ex-girlfriends in the past.
2006-10-05 17:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you should get away from that family, or at least stay away from his dad.
2006-10-05 17:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by countrygirl66032 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes embarresed that you might find something out that you shouldnt know,, either something he did or his father
2006-10-05 17:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋