what to do when some one cheating on you?

Question

am badly hurted give some soultions

Answer 1

Yes you have the right to feel the hurt and for once in your life, show to the world that you are mad, but do not take the law in your own hands. I am truly sorry that this has happened to you, unfortunately these things happen to the best of men but just remember that you have the strength to move on and know that you will heal in time. I do hope that you will be alright, finding your girlfriend cheating is rough but you deserve so much better.

Time... the old adage of time softening grief. Ask yourself these questions though. Did you learn something? Is there something that you could have done differently? Take your lessons and move on, you can't change what she did, you can only find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.

If you are with the wrong one, the right one will walk on by, be thankful because the door is now open for the right one..
Things always happen for a reason and think that
it may be because a better woman will come along for you.
One that will not cheat and give you all the love you deserve.
Make room for that special angel that will come your way, okay?

One more thing, I know it's never easy to handle a situation like that but believe me when I say that in time... things do get better. Keep busy with your friends that care about you. I commend you for putting it out here and allowing your vulnerable side to show.

Remember, sometimes when you stop looking for something it has a way of finding you... Be patient, be good to yourself, and most of all love yourself. I was curious if you were going to take her back, sometimes love is blind and your heart doesn't
want to let go. That's a decision that you will have to make. Is she worth all the risk of getting hurt again? One of the best ways to deal with such painful emotions is to talk about them, rather than letting them bottle up inside. Like I said, allow yourself to feel angry, confused, upset, hurt, etc.

Wishing you lots of strength. Better luck next time and goodluck!

Answer 2

I just got cheated by my bf.. so, i really how u feel right now.. I have sad for a few days and i didnt want to make myself to be sad anymore... Bf, cheated on me, so what? is not the end of the world...U should be happy, u can treat urself better, more care about people who care about u, like give urself a present, go travel with friends, as long the things that will make u happy, then u should do. Use this time, do be more close with ur family and friends.. Remember, dont try to revenge and forget about it.. anyways, u need to move on to a happier life.

Answer 3

Leave! I know it's easier said than done but no one should be treated like that!What goes around comes around! Sorry u had 2 go through that.There is plenty of other fish in the sea,and one of them will give u the respect u deserve!Don't lose no sleep over it! Go out with some friends or visit some family and keep busy.Good luck 2 u

Answer 4

I'm so very sorry. That's a kind of hurt that is hard to get over. You will love again and you will trust again. The only thing that you can do is move on and wwhatever you do, DO NOT accept her back. Once a cheater always a cheater. Find someone who will put you first and cherish you. They're out there, I promise. Get over the idea of revenge though. You won't find enough satisfaction there.

Answer 5

Well there is always someone out there who can treat you better than that. The fact that you know she/he is cheating on you should give you initiative to end the relationship and start afresh with keeping yourself busy to keep your mind off her/him. Join a yoga class/ painting group, meet new and exciting people and you will defenitley be on your way to not hurting anymore and hopefully find a new love interest in the future...

Answer 6

Well, logically you only have 3 choice.. no matter what you are and where you are..

1. Keep Quiet and remain the same
2. Move away and start a new life
3. Scold he/she and take action against he/she

So... no matter which way you are choosing, there is going to be a side-effect.

For me, is definitely the combination of 1 and 3. I will keep quiet and wait for the time to come... the best time, then take action against him/she

Answer 7

have you confronted the girl yet? if not wait a little and c if she comes out. if not, then you definently should wait until you hvae her in the correct place and then go at her calmly and ? her. try and talk out the problem, but if she denies it and u know that it is true then just tell her its over and that any girl thats going to lie and cheat on u is a huge waste of your time. tell her its over and walk away. i know it will hurt, but it will feel much better after you do it. good luck and i hope that it really works for you.

Answer 8

Move on and find someone else.... Even though a Broken heart makes you feel like the world will end it won't... It hurts so bad but there is someone out there who will LOVE you and treat you with respect. noone deserves to be cheated on NO-ONE.... good luck and always keep your head up. It will get better I PROMISE!

Answer 9

Change your avatar and start big fat daddy lies about something horrendous, meanwhile do random acts of kindness to make yourself feel better. Tell everyone a different version of the truth and see who your real friends are, you are at a pivotal point and need the release. Now go have some fun...if it is over you cannot resuscitate it........

Answer 10

This is a pain you have to truly feel until you can't feel it anymore. You feel like a fool and very disappointed. Going through the feeling of loss (in this case loss of trust, ... you feel like the person who you thought he/she was died) is like going through a grieving period when someone dies. Also cry until you can't cry anymore, but make sure you do it to cleanse your system of her(the angelic one- the one you adored for adoring you and you only), not to plunge into a major depression.... which means cry with all your might and then stop and move on.