I think hard to sleep with my and to think about others men. And you?
2006-10-05 09:51:08 · 24 answers · asked by leon s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOU SHOULD TELL HER YOUR GAY!
2006-10-05 09:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sooo..... you have a hard time having sex with your wife without thinking of men?
If that is the questions, looks like you have a problem here.
Unfortunetly, you will at some point have to talk to her about this. I know personally, if it was my husband, I would probably be ok if he wanted to explore a little more, with other genders. HOWEVER, I am coming to find, most wives aren't like me. LOL...
Honestly thinking about other men, is not what makes a man gay. So, I am not going to jump on the wagon and say you are. That's not my place. However, it is obvious you have some fantasy about it. I don't know if this is normal or not, who can say what is NORMAL for someone to think or feel, or what turns them on.
Perhaps there is a way to introduce this fantasy with your wife? I have watched gay porn with exes, and it opened my mind a little more. One ex said he wasn't gay, but there was something about the male fantasies that were more experimental and aggressive, and in turn we worked it out, so I was the more aggresive person. We lasted 4 years.
The problem for you is, whatever reason for your fantasies, it's hard for a woman to compete with the opposite sex. So, you will need to determine what if anything, your wife can do to fulfill these fantasies! It also depends on how you are thinking of other men.
If you are just thinking on physical features, attraction basically to the same gender, there is little your wife can do. If you are thinking about getting it in the rear, or sucking, well then, at least they make strap ons for that!
2006-10-05 17:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Willalee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking if "People think of the other men your wife has sleep with prior to you" Then yes when a person is extrmely good in bed you ahve to wonder where they learned it.
If you are asking if gay men think of the other men they have been with and then married women and still have feelings for said men. Then I would say you need ot discuss with your wife your life prior to marriage.
I would also say that you need to think real hard about continuing to be married if you are still interested in relationships with men
2006-10-05 16:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry Berry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Master Yoda!
2006-10-05 16:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're married to a woman but can't stop thinking about having sex with a man, then you're most like gay or bi-curious, and shouldn't be married.
You're going to have to tell your wife the truth.
2006-10-05 16:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your gay? I think you need to tell your wife so she can go and file for divorce tomorrow. Because i know i would. And for me no i'm not a lesbian or bi so therefor i don't think about others when i sleep with my hubby.
2006-10-05 16:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your sentence structure is understandable- do you mean do I, a female, think about other men while I'm with my man?
2006-10-05 16:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your english.
2006-10-05 16:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by bradthepilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a suggestion, but I think your should be honest with yourself, and put a little more thought into improving your language skills
2006-10-05 16:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by DaBoomvang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah - that twisted my brain into a knot.
Who did you what? Could you restate that as a question?
FP
2006-10-05 16:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shut up when you hear grown folk's talking
2006-10-05 16:57:25 · answer #11 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋