I need to talk to someone!!!
2006-10-05 09:40:02 · 13 answers · asked by wifey84cher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh, no... That sucks. Some may say they are only looking for sex, but it is not so. They are looking for some certain comfort that they still didn't find in marriage. No, I'm not saying it's your fault that he's cheating. Cheating is a symptom of problems in marriage, not so much of a problem itself. Get tested for STDs and work things out with him. Decide for yourself if you want this man in your life. If you do - really talk to him and listen to him. (No, it doesn't mean he got what he want by doing a wrong thing. You know what I mean...) He might get defencive to the point of passive-aggressive. But do work things out. I know it hurts like hell when someone cheats on you. But, if you imagine your life 3 years from now, it will pass.
2006-10-05 09:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least with hookers you know he was seeking strictly sex. Wow I have never had that problem but I have had a cheating hubby. It was a terrible situation. The hooker thing would not be and easier. I wish you hte best/
2006-10-05 09:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheating on you with hookers he's looking for something he's not getting at home. The best he can hope for out of it is very temporary sexual gratification. There is no emotional fullfillment at all either, unless she is a very expensive call girl. There will be no falling in love or anything like that.
Outside of that, the only gain is the risk of contracting STD's and taking them home.
2006-10-05 10:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you look at it. Feel free to email me.
For example my hubby used to travel..and would be gone for 2 weeks or so at a time would come home for a day or 2 then leave again.
I hope I can help you
2006-10-05 09:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by Just another day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get over it that's critical that he well known what he did damage u, he could let u to communicate about your damage, to forgive we ought to communicate it, possibly no longer each and every of the sored information, yet he needs to allow u to communicate, till u can the soreness will stay. he's insensitive and a coward. possibly u made a mistake in letting him again into your existence. search for therapy as u have truly been damage right here. u favor to be in a position to inform him how this has affected u, if he needs to in elementary words sweep it lower than the rug and act as if he not in any respect did it, u heavily isn't in a position to forgive it.
2016-12-04 07:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but my husband may have been with a stripper . So I guess if he did that would classify her as a hooker.
2006-10-05 11:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mine do not cheat. talk to yours and tell him you are really upset about it. ask if he could promise not to do that again and then forgive the past incidents. if not, you have to decide how you want the situation resolved. i am sorry for your anguish. good luck!
2006-10-05 09:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine hasn't but if he did i'd be filing for divorce. Good luck with whatever is going on.
2006-10-05 09:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get tested and then talk to your lawyer
2006-10-05 09:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jonathan I 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More or less....e-mail me if you have questions.
2006-10-05 09:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Amanda♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋