i'm 16 i'm gay and my boyfriend is pressuring me to have sex i kind of want to but i'm a little hesitant--HELP
2006-10-05 09:36:17 · 12 answers · asked by sebastian 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be his boyfriend until you are ready to have sexual relations with him. Let no one ever pressure you into doing anything you are not comfortable with! If you want to but are somewhat hesitant; ask him to be patience and take it slow. Your entire life is ahead of you. You have a chance to make a good start. Take your time.
2006-10-05 10:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT let anyone pressure you into sex. If you are 16 and you do not feel completely ready for it, then DO NOT do it. You will know when the time is right.
If he keeps pressuring you into having sex despite the fact that you don't want to, then break up with him. It's that simple... I know you'll probably say that you love him and you just want to be with him and you don't want to break up over this... but the truth is that sex is something you HAVE TO be ready for. If you're not, then he needs to respect that as your boyfriend. If he can't respect you, then he shouldn't be your boyfriend.
2006-10-06 15:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by pceej 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun I'm not a guy and I'm not gay but I think it's safe to say that it's the same as for str8 people -- If he loves you he should care enough to wait till you're ready.
It won't be pleasurable for you if you're still unsure about it and you give in to the pressure. You might even resent it later.
Plus, you're only 16 which might even be illegal depending upon his age and where you live.
Above all else, just let him know how you feel and be honest about everything!
Good luck. : )
2006-10-05 17:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by MissJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you answered a previous question that you have been in a gang bang.... Intresting If this is a true question and you are 16.. You need to wait until you are old enough. Which in your case should be 18 years old...... Just say no..... Dump the boyfriend..
2006-10-05 17:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by mylife 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If sex is legal between you two (depending upon age and the State where you are) then what would you be saving yourself for (to be a virginal bride on your wedding)? If its legal, go ahead, Man
2006-10-06 04:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by reggaeboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your boyfriend is a Republican Senator, then I would say you should definitely say no.
If your boyfriend is close to your age and really hot, then I say, what are you waiting for exactly?
Saving yourself for marriage? Its a long wait. I've been waiting for almost 30 years, myself.
2006-10-05 17:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Todd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to remember that its YOUR choice and NOT his. But whatever direction you decide to go, just take it slow and balanced (i.e. it should not be one sided) and make SURE you use condoms! God says safety first in all things!
2006-10-05 17:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by God 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your not ready ......I didnt have sex until I was 19 .
2006-10-05 19:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by ♦GAY INDIAN♦ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have sex with him the first time it can be scarry. but when his dick gets into your mouth than you know that you did the right thing
2006-10-06 14:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him he will have to wait until you are BOTH ready.
2006-10-05 17:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋