Two weeks ago, I met a guy in class and we really clicked. Long story short, we slept together a week ago. It freaked me out because I've never moved that quickly with someone and felt as though I damaged any potential of building a solid friendship. So I gave him an ultimatum: All or nothing. (I wanted to scare him away.) He says that it shouldn't be all or nothing; instead, we stop having sex (which we have), remain friends (ie: go out to places together) and open to the possibility of a relationship in the future.
I guess my question is how do you move forward with a friendship after the sex line has been crossed?
2006-10-05 09:31:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's funny hearing a woman ask this question :) ! Aren't you gonna see this man as a bit of a s..t if you let him go now and he becomes involved sexually with another woman because you cut him loose?
If he wants to give you & him a real go...what are you afraid of?
Friendship is hard enough between two people who are attracted to each other, but you've already crossed the line honey! There is NO goin back! Not for a man anyway. He will always see you as more!
In his heart, he'll be doin his best to make you jealous and win you over...unless he is just a S..T!
2006-10-05 09:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Davey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was really good sex, you won't be able to. You can try to just be friends and go from there, but, if there is a desire, and you have already done it, it will be hard to say no.
2006-10-05 16:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by emotional blonde 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like you would if the line had never been crossed.......because friendship is building bridges with the person.....sex is physical enjoyment.......tow different things dont confuse or cross them up
2006-10-05 16:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by scotdic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least you know he is not in it for the sex. Just take it easy one day at a time.
2006-10-05 16:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by Drojan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things happen. You are moving slow now and go foward from there. if it is ment to blossom it will
good luck
2006-10-05 16:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, drag yourself if you have to ... lol
2006-10-05 17:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋