is this baby mine? did she sleep with someone before me?

Question

ive bin seeing my girlfriend since 26th august, we slept together on the first nite. now on the 29th september she took a pregnancy test an she told me she is pregnant. can you know that soon an if it is mine or could she have slept with someone before me

Answer 1

If you had sex with her on the 26th of August, it can definitely be your baby. It wasn't too soon to find out. If you're so uncertain, then request a DNA test once the baby is born. Please don't stress her out during the pregnancy because that's very bad for her & the baby. Good luck!

Answer 2

It is possible it is yours, if you are still uneasy, help her out during the pregnancy, (DON"T RUN that is the worst thing you can do especially if it is yours) and when the baby is born get a paternity test.

If it comes out that she is more than four weeks (that is the most, I don't know her cycle to be able to tell when she could get pregnant related to the day you started being involved) I would say it is definetly not yours. When she goes for her first prenatal visit ask to come. And they will probably have an ultrasound then and will say how far along she is and the due date. Plus as becoming a dad you might have some questions on what you can do to help.

Right now being trusting.

Answer 3

It is fully possible however it is fully possible that she got pregnant with someone else a few days before meeting you and is really hoping that it's yours!! Go with her to her first few doctors appointments and find out EXACTLY how far along she is and that may help do the math. If you are still concerned that it may not be yours then I would say wait it through and when that little one gets here get a paternity test done. Be honest with her and just tell her that you are ready to step up and be a man if it is yours but you want to know if there is any way that it could someone elses. Tell her that you know its not impossible to get early pregnant from one encounter and that you just want to know since you just got together if it really is yours!! She didn't put up much of a fight with you to have sex so who knows if she had sex with several men in the week before you "hooked up"~ Ya never know because honestly there really is no place for a question of trust.....trust is only good when you know someone! GOOD LUCK! Support her if she tells you it's yours- you can always be mad later.

Answer 4

First of all do you trust your girlfriend?You need to ask her how would we know.You have to be responsible and know.And yes its been more than a month so maybe it is your baby.Maybe you should take time and sit down with your girlfriend and talk.Now if she tells you that you have been the only one believe her and be there for the baby through the pregnancy and when the baby is born do a DNA test.But save money because DNA test are pricey $3,000 good luck and try to listen.

Answer 5

Yes she can know that she is pregnant that soon.
Is it yours, is yet to be known you can have a DNA test taken when its born and should if there are questions about it being yours. For her to sleep with you on the first night its a good possibility that she sleeps around. Stop and think the next time !!! SAFE SEX !!! Even if they don't get pregnant you can still catch something funky.
Think with the big head before giving pleasure to the little one.

Answer 6

boy o boy you are in a pickle. I would recommend that you prepare to be a parent b/c sounds like you are a sharp shooter with that thing of yours =) Plus just so you know the only way to get a paternity test while she is pregnant is with a needle the length of texas and she will never go for it so you have to wait till the baby is born. how old r u? be prepared to be a daddy either way b/c after a while of seeing the big belly and then seeing a baby you probably wont care cuz you love that child so much =) good luck

Answer 7

YES!! If you do not trust her, then I suggest having her get an amniocentesis, but I don't think she will do it.....long needle in belly. I would wait until she had the child, then ask for paternity. Don't stress her out at this time in both your lives. When she goes to find out when she is due, go with her, so you will hear what the doc has to say. If she is due in May, around the date you and her had sex, then more than likely the child is yours. I would be curious too if I were you, she didn't wait long to have sex with you, soo......

Answer 8

It could be yours or could not be yours
pregnancy tests can show you are pregnant from couple hours onwards (depending on how sensitive they are) go along with your girlfriend to docs and find out how far along she is (although there is a discrepancy of give or take 2wks) but should be possible to work out dates of conception depending on girlfriends last periods and scans of baby. but this reaction of is it mine is perfectly normal when first told the news but congrats on maybe being a dad

Answer 9

Time to wake up m8... you need to ask yourself other questions. Is she the one for you with or without you being a dad. Being able to talk to someone through the difficult times is very important but the hardest thing of all. If it's going to work, you'll have to discuss your fears with her, not with others on here coz with a special lady you can work it out yourself. If you can't, then I can tell u already you're on borrowed time for going your own ways.

Being a Dad is great but it's also a lifetime commitment and there's shed loads of things that you need to know, good & bad, but you need to learn these lessons yourself.

If she's right for you & it's all down to respect, you'll work it out.

Happy dayz mate

Answer 10

Home preg tests can detect the pregnancy hormone as soon as the first day after a period is missed.
The only way to know if it's yours is trusting your gf or a paternity test.