why am i so sinful? sometimes i'd just be like damn...it's like i just can't learn to appreciate all kinds of ladies ya know i mean? i know all chicks are lovable but when it comes to deciding who should i hook up with i always disregard emtional and intellectual connections....
2006-10-05 09:25:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No, it is not a sin, but it is terriably shallow of you. It is also a sign of low self worth on your part that you disregard the inner package in order to have eye candy on your arm. When a person needs to show off, there is a lack of self worth and self esteem.
It is ok to be attracted to "hot chicks" as you put it. It is true we are rather biologically attracted to thos which appear the healthiest specimens, in the case of continuing our race. However, one sign of health is mental health. Would you wish to have a woman bare your children who is very beautiful but who has a serious mental illness? Perhpaps a woman who is very hot, but who is about as selfish as a baby denied the tit? One who is very attractive, but who has no capacity for loyalty or any real depth of love?
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be with hot chicks, there IS something wrong when you disregard what is inside them. Who wants an empty box with pretty wrapping around it? That is about as attractive as a blow up doll.
When you mature more you will begin to see that what is on the inside is very important. You will realize that only 5% of the population actually looks like the women on the tube, the screen and the magizines and then they have their photos touched up and makeup artists who can make an ugly chick look hot.
Maturity will do wonders for your desire to discard the inner being of women and to focus only on their outside packaaging. Plus, we all grow old and what do you do when that emply box with pretty packaging is all worn, grey, faded, wrinkled and basically lost all its glamour? Wouldn't you then wish there was actually something inside the box?
Don't worry, eventually you will see the wisdom of looking at more than the physical aspects of a woman and begin to appreciate what is inside as well as on the outside. Beauty is in the eye of the beholdor, and when a person is beautiful on the inside s/he glows on the outside. Beauty, real beauty comes from inside, not outside a person. You will eventually learn this, and hopefully it will be before you are in an empty marriage with basically nothing more than a blow up doll.
Good luck and lots of fun with the hot chicks.
2006-10-05 09:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it a sin to be attracted to physical beauty? After all, He made those chicks hot and it would be a blasphemy to disregard His handiwork.
Besides, you are just following biology's rules. Don't forget that we are really just a bunch of horny animals when you get down to basics.
2006-10-05 09:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't a sin, but it is definitely shallow. Maybe a lack of depth is your comfort zone. Attraction based solely on a "hot" appearance may indicate that you are not seeking a girlfriend, but a status symbol. It has more to do with how a girl makes you feel about yourself, not her company.
2006-10-05 09:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's natural. As you grow older you'll find the hot chicks can't just pay the bills with their looks and often, their good looks attract other guys.
-It's natural for all of us to be attracted to good looking people, but try to find a balance between looks and a woman who wants a career. I guess the word is Maturity.
2006-10-05 09:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sal G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a typical man who goes after the sexy body instead of the brains. No, ii's not sinful to be that selective. Me, I prefer the athletic type, of course with intelligence, and handsome if not bearable looking. Men with facial hairs and who are morbidly obese turns me off.
2006-10-05 09:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by rosieC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only is it not a sin it is your duty to "be with" the hottest chicks you can get to all future generations.
2006-10-05 09:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically no, but it is a sin to sleep with them and do things (in a sexual nature) with them out of marriage.
It is though human nature to be attracted to good looking people as opposed to overweight with an acne problem BUT really funny and sweet -lol-
Its hard not to be superficial when it comes to "love at first sight"
2006-10-05 09:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by ♥kailababy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ease up on yourself a little. It's not a sin. I won't lie -- it is shallow. But sinful? Cut yourself a break!
2006-10-05 09:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ginny D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women are hot in their own special way. So date all of them.
2006-10-05 09:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sinful, no. Shallow, unenlightened and insensitive, ablosutely.
2006-10-05 09:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by kveldulfgondlir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋