People get on my damn nerves. I try to be the nicest most sweetest person yet people are always so rude and disrespectful to me. FOr instance, it's this girl in my Peace Studies class who keeps on being rude and btichy towards me, I never did anything to this girl but be nice to her. And if she says one more rude thing to me I'm going to curse her *** out. And there are these kids on my bus who are always talking bout me. I keep to myself and they just always pick on me and I got really mad and started to yeall and stuff. I hate being nice, why won't people just let me be?
2006-10-05 09:12:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Sometimes, one can become weary from the other people;s negative remarks, meanness and rudeness,People can be 'emotional vampires ' Sounds like she is trying to get you in trouble, by making you lose your cool.Keep being nice, that will drive her nuts. The kids talking about you- ---well ---talk is cheap Actually, I will tell you a secret---a person that doesn't get angry "is mightier than a King."And, it takes more courage to end a battle than to begin one" If she says something rude --just smile that will bug her.I believe you are a leader ,chin-up .God Bless.
2006-10-05 09:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by Tinkerbelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I used to have that same problem. The kids on the bus want to get on your nerves. Don't give them the satisfaction. Ignore them and move away from them. If that dosn't work, let the bus driver know. As for the girl who keeps being rude and disrespectful. Just try to have the least amount of contact possible with her.
2006-10-05 09:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya, happens all the time and will continue to be that way throughout your life. If you end up a loser people will deride you for that. If you are successful, people will be jealous and concoct all kinds of reasons why you are jerk. Any point in between there wil be idiots. Trust me on this. Its best to be decent to people and just realize that there will be jerks everywhere, making themselves feel better cutting you up.
Just think - Mother Teresa was actually the target of complaints before that they didn't like her style or exactly where the money went. Canadian Terry Fox (one legged jogger who ran for cancer) was cut up by my religion teacher of all things because she said he was taking money away from other charities.
So if you are being insulted and you know full well that you did nothing wrong - just think that you are in good company.
2006-10-05 09:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to reply to rude behavior is either ignore it or calmly ask them why they would say things like that to you.
People like this are insecure and need to feel superior. They want you to react badly, if you stay calm you throw then off balance. If they act out, they look like the fools.
Be the better person, as hard as it might be it will pay off.
I see irony in the fact a person is being mean in peace studies.
2006-10-05 09:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people say if your too nice then something is wrong with you. Like ex: your crazy, psycho, all into yourself, smile too much are some things people will say. But that is only cause they cant get to kow you. Once they do then they'll see why you are so nice. I get the same thing from people, Now the niceness is wearing off but I wont let it go away forever.
2006-10-05 09:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kawainani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them and never stoop to their level. Who has time to worry about other people and what they think about you? It's not like they're perfect, right? If you don't want to ignore them, try pointing out some of their own faults and imperfections. But be ready for the response you may get. It's hard to just ignore people like that, but you also don't want people to walk all over you for the rest of your life.
2006-10-05 09:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by chocolate-drop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you're showing them that it bothers you. If you make them think that it doesn't bother you, they will get bored with it and move on. I know it sounds pretty....stupid, but it does work. Just ignore them. You don't have to PROVE yourself to anyone but YOURSELF, and if you can do that, than you're untouchable. Keep ya head up girl. Most of the time, it's the other peoples insecurities that cause them to pick on other people, because they have something to hide, and instead of people paying attention to whats going on in their life, they put the spotlight on you.
2006-10-05 09:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by detroitkid17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them and avoid them if u ask me because u r probably stuck with them for a whole semester and focusing on them will only stress u out more.But there will always be haters in the world,So long as u r doin ur job and makin the best of urself everything is ok.
2006-10-05 09:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lil Snoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are tired of being nice, but you may need to learn not to Liston and take personal every word you hear. You seem to have an open and tender heart and you care. You are being wounded by their words,I to have been there and I survived so did those who wounded my pride.
2006-10-05 09:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sound like jerks. Just imagine that in the next ten years you being famous and rich whlie all thoses jerks turn out fat, smelly, poor and ugly. Thats what got me through high school.
2006-10-05 09:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋