What are mens problems?

Question

What they worry about?
Why cant they commit?
Why cant they be honest?
Or are they misunderstood?

Answer 1

Let’s take each question in turn:

WHAT ARE MEN’S PROBLEMS?

In short most male related problems, are rooted in an identity crisis, where they are loosing a sense of purpose in a world that is becoming increasingly feminized.

WHAT ARE THEY WORRIED ABOUT?

They are worried about numerous things, from their professional success to finding a relationship that is meaningful and fulfilling? However, I think the greatest fear for a man, the anxiety that trumps all others, is a fear of being relegated to obsolescence. In a world that is more and more tailored to women’s wants and desires, a man seems to have lost his role in society.

WHY CAN’T THEY COMMIT?

This question was not even relevant 40 years ago, because it was a universal aspiration for men to settle down and raise a family. In fact the ultimate symbol of manhood was the rearing of children and sustaining a stable marriage. Now with women taking on roles that were traditionally the exclusive domain of men, they no longer see that they can contribute something valuable to a marriage or family life. Hence, the logic goes, if I am ultimately useless, why not revel in fun and not be hampered by commitment.

WHY CAN’T MEN BE HONEST?

Well, talk about the pot calling the kettle black. Mendacity is a two way street and women are just as deceitful as men. In fact, they are more so. Why? Well, at least a man has to open his mouth to tell a lie. A woman lies before she opens her mouth. She has highlighted hair to make her hair seem more radiant than it really is. She puts on eye shadow, eyeliner and glitter, to add depth to her eyes that isn’t there. She puts on lipstick to make her lips look fuller than they are. She wears blush to make her cheeks appear rosier than they really are and she wears foundation to mask imperfections in her face. She wears pushup and padded bras to make her seem more endowed. She can don a body suit to make her body seem more shapely and proportioned. Finally she can wear high heals to make herself appear several inches taller than she really is and it allows for her posterior to stick out in a sexually alluring way.

My point is that a woman’s entire appearance is so fake that she can lie while keeping silent. That is a feat men, except for the rare metrosexual, has yet to achieve. When you add to this deception all the gossip and blatantly false statements she voices, the average woman simply cannot comment about the lies of men, for women lie far more often.


OR ARE MEN MISUNDERSTOOD?

Men are not complicated creatures. Much has been written about them. They are understood. However, because of the increasing emasculation of society they have been marginalized. The problem with men is not that they are misunderstood; it is that they are being disregarded completely. The aberrant behavior you see emanating from the male population is the backlash to being reduced to a triviality.

Answer 2

I think most men are very misunderstood, my husband is a born worrier and if he has nothing to worry about then he worries even more, he is totally committed to me and has never let me down once in the 27 years we have been together, he is the most honest man I have ever met, in fact far too honest for his own good, I do know a lot of men who are exactly the same as my husband too.

Answer 3

What are woman's problems?
What do we worry about?
Why can't we commit?
Why can't we be honest?
Or are we misunderstood?

Yes. Not all men are like that. Going through a break up huh. Well don't worry this is just a stage like the crying stage. You will be over him in a week or two. Woman can be jerks too. It's not just men. Humans can be good or bad. Good luck fishing for a good one. :)

Answer 4

It would appear that we are misunderstood. Men are very simple creatures, we think about sex, food, more sex, more food, a couple of abstract ideas we could never properly communicate and more sex. Women on the other hand are a lot more complicated especially in their relationships with one another. They then try to apply those rules to men, this is when everything breaks down. Also remember a man would rather cut off his nose than admit weakness, and to be scared is to be weak. Hence the commitment problem.

Answer 5

Mens problems are shaving, having no money and having to talk with women who ask deep questions.

These are not mens problems as such, they are opportunities if your glass is half full.

They worry about the same things you do - and some. They'll commit when they're ready. They are honest as long as it suits them. If you understand this you don't need an answer to the last question.

You will find "the one" and he will be perfect for you.

Answer 6

It seems you misunderstand them fairly well.
I worry like everyone. About the world, famine, war, terrorism, etc.
I am committed to wife.
I am honest.
Being misunderstood is not one of my problems. It's a problem for those that don't understand.
Hope this clears up all your questions.

Answer 7

I am guessing you are a lady! Men are totally different to women, their bodies AND brains are totally different.. The survival of the human race is due to women being social, caring, nurturing and domestic, (cooking cleaning, having babies and bringing up children) and men being logical, single minded, stubborn and selfish. (racing, hunting, being the best in the area, providing for family) yes...I think both men and women misunderstand each other. Only when we each accept we are different do we live in peace!
BUT...if you find a man dishonest, then that is his own personality at fault and there is no excuse, so ditch him.

Answer 8

because those regulations were invented through adult men in a patriarchal society. the point develop into to shop women people down, and that's continuously the female's fault. In fairly a lot all non-pagan religions.

Answer 9

How to keep a man committed: - Keep us fed, give us head, don't ask to many questions and leave the remote alone...

Answer 10

Women?