See one of my old male friends came to me the other day because he wanted to cop-a-feel and I couldn't say no because he is the sweetest person that you can ever meet and now that he has found a date for homecoming tommorrow he barley even agnoaliges me so, I really dont know what to do because we go way back and i dont want to ruin the friendship that we built over the years. I NEED HELP!!!
2006-10-05 09:02:31 · 8 answers · asked by ^0^Army-Red^0^ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
answer is simple.
to you, he is a friend.
to him, you are an object.
not a healthy relationship.
break it. you're better than that.
2006-10-05 09:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by Robert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, when old male friends come around, it's ALWAYS for one reason. You don't have a friendship, you have a guy who turns to you for a feel or a **** when he can't get anyone else.
2006-10-05 16:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by cdrfish15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some friends r selfish as u say he is not so he loves u and the main point he is urs old friend
so be away from he can be dangerous 4 u
2006-10-05 16:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by mah sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what friendship? he is only coming to you when he doesn;t have anything else going on. That's him taking you for granted and you taking it.
next time tell him to take a hike - you deserve better
2006-10-05 16:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.... he came around just so he could feel you up? wow... not the best of friends there hon. Seriously, consider getting a new friend.
2006-10-05 16:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't too sweet if he just wanted to cop-a-feel, obviously that is all he wants from you, stay away from him.
2006-10-05 16:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be frank with him, tell him exactly what you just said here. if he is a true friend he won't hold it against you and you will stay friends. if he does hold it against you then you haven't lost much of a friend anyway.
2006-10-05 16:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you even want this friendship?? dunno if i would but thats easier said than done because most people are like that. i encountr it every day at varsity and maybe in a way we are all a little like that
2006-10-05 16:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by sexy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋