My dad's girlfriend id treating me, my dad AND my sister VERY bad. She is arguing with my dad over bills, and my mom. I ahve had up to here with her. I can't take it anymore. I feel like with her, it's a rollercoaster at Six Flags. She's nice one day, but ignores me the other. My dad has decided to not live with her any longer, and she got VERY angry at that. Now, she's staying up to 1:00AM saying that she is "dating" another guy. My dad sats that we are going to move out in about 1 week. What should I do?
2006-10-05 08:54:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just try to make it through the week until you move, that's really all you can do.
2006-10-05 08:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adults can do really dumb things sometimes! Just try to stay strong and not let her get to you. The less you argue with her, the better off you will be. If your dad is having problems with her, let him handle those. Don't get involved, that would only cause you trouble. Good Luck
2006-10-05 16:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your Dad is making the best decision to move out so until then just ignore her and do not say anything to her. Have you told your Dad how you feel?
2006-10-05 15:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your dad is doing exactly the right thing---he has to realize that this relationship is going from bad toworse quickly--obviously this woman is very selfish and incredibly immature--is she very much younger then your dad?
besides the fact that your dad has decided to move you all somewhere safer- is proof to me that your dad cares about you kids very much-----it will get better, just be supportful of your dad and try not to hate on anybody--it just ends up making you unhappy---------good luck
2006-10-05 16:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy.
Pack during the week and help your dad load up and move as quickly as possible! your enthusiasm in packing and moving will both make you feel better and quietly send the b10tch a message without you having to lower yourself to her level.
2006-10-05 16:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would help your dad start packing. You can be respectful of someone you don't like. So, don't get into an argument w/ dgf, it would make it harder on him to defend you and not make her mad.
It's hard not to judge other people. So, chock this experience up and label it as "What I Don't Want To Be When I Grow Up".
Good luck, my dear.
2006-10-05 16:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Deborah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count down the days until the move happens. Then thank your father for getting rid of the wicked witch.
2006-10-05 15:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not supposed to do anything, because it`s their`s problem, not yours. It may be affecting you as well, but ultimately only your dad and his ex girlfriend have to solve their personal issues.
People are like that, their rotten relationships are a direct result of
the lack of quallity, open and honest communication.
The best you can do is to not be like them!
2006-10-05 15:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by Ateviel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is staying with your mom an option ? If not, hang in there for the week and remind your dad of his deadline
2006-10-05 16:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING IT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR DAD IS HANDLING THE PROBLEM BY MOVING OUT. SINCE IT SOUNDS LIKE EVEYONE FEELS THE SAME WAY ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IN ORDER TO NOT CAUSE ANY MORE STRESS TO YOUR DAD CAUSE HE'S GOING THREW ENOUGH, IS TO BE COOL, LAY BACK IN THE CUT. STAY OUT OF HER WAY UNTIL YOU GUYS MOVE
2006-10-05 15:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋