A man had a woman that he loved, he profess his love to her and his friends knew how he felt about her, but one day he married his baby's mama, whom he doesn't love and didn't want to be with. He's stayed married, but as his family and friends put it, he's not happy and spends no time with her at all. After the wedding a relative saw a wedding picture where he looked unhappy and mad, he told the relative that he wasn't happy then and he wasn't happy now. Why would he leave this woman that he loved to marry one that he didn't?
2006-10-05 08:38:12 · 14 answers · asked by Yolie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He felt obligated because of the kid he had. He feels he owes it to the child to be with the mother. But I strongly disapprove of that because if you are not happy, that kid will soon find out. It isn't fair to you or the child. He needs to leave her and be with the girl he loves.
2006-10-05 08:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Amanda♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well- one really good reason why he married her- no child support!! guys tend to feel guilty if they get a girl pregnant and not marry them. Alot of men get married becauset heir girl is expecting and at the edn it doens't work. He seems like he's worried about the baby growing up in a broken home.
2006-10-05 08:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by mari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would this women spend so much time wondering and seeking out information on a man who had a baby and married someone else ??
2006-10-05 08:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RESPONSIBILITY...It's not right but sometimes it drives us to do things we don't like to do. He probably loves them both but in different ways. Baby momma has his love for bringing his children into the world. He may be in love with the other and have more of an emotional connection. It sucks to be the "other" one but the "other " one should just move on and try to find another soulmate...more than one exists for everyone...I'm convinced!
2006-10-05 08:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by BB'sMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason women tend to stay with guys who treat them like dirt.. It's usually self-esteem.. or a lack thereof.
2006-10-05 08:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by suninmyskies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becasue it is amazing what women will put up with...and men know that.
That is why there are Bad Boys and Married Bad Boys
2006-10-05 08:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by e_guanajuato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called security. Men often stay with someone that they don't love for the kids. I know someone personally, and he told me that's why he stays. Not for love but for security.
2006-10-05 08:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same reason why a woman wouldnt bwith a guy that catches the buss when she drives a benz. ITS JUST STUPID OK. love is love and shame on u if u *** that up.
2006-10-05 08:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by dipper9stikk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably guilt about the child. That is why men and women shouldn't fornicate before marriage. Got it?
2006-10-05 08:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) He sacrificed his happiness so that he could try to be physically in his kids life. Or... 2) It's called no child support payments. "It's cheaper to keep her..."
2006-10-05 08:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋