I mean totally psycho calls and emails and stops by to say he loves you and wants you back and in the same breath says he hates you and calls me all kinds of names. I have tried to be polite I have tried to be rude I have agreed to everything I have fought about it now I am sick of it is there a way w/out changing my email or phone # to block him out or to get him off my back?? HELP I don't think I should have to change anything I didn't even break up w/him he freaked out on me and left and now that I have become happy w/out him and don't want him back he is pulling out all the stops to drive me nuts
2006-10-05 08:31:37 · 14 answers · asked by barbie89032 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a restraining order. He is out of hand. Hope your situation works out!
2006-10-05 08:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I had a psycho ex, I'd treat him like I were being stalked by a crazy person. I'd change my number; I'd go to court and get a restraining order against him; I'd change my email. I would document every instance he contact you (Date, time, what he said, where you were, witnesses if possible.) Yes, you shouldn't have to do this but he's PSYCHO. You can't deal with him rationally.
He's out of balance and a danger to you. It's worth the peace of mind to do what you need to do. He the little bit of sanity in him needs to know that you're not kidding.
2006-10-05 08:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but you'll HAVE to change some things if you want peace and quiet. Change your phone numbers, email addresses, etc. If you can, move. I know that sucks, but for your mental and physical well being, it's worth it. Also, get a restraining order. This guy could be dangerous.
2006-10-05 08:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by mommyofmegaboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PROTECTIVE ORDER... NOW!!!!!
Forget a restraining order, those are worthless. If this guy is nuts and has threatened you at ALL- and it sounds like he is- then he may potentially harm you out of jealousy and/or frustration at losing you. At the least he is stalking you and that kind of violation is usually taken very seriously these days. Contact your local police dept. to get an order filed. Once it's in place, if he makes an contact with you at all he will be arrested.
2006-10-05 08:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by suninmyskies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others you do need to get a restraining order against him.This week here we had a man shoot his ex and set the house on fire then killed himself.They aren't called psychos for nothing.And just so you know she swore up and down He would never hurt her.Just be careful.
2006-10-05 15:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do everything you can to get rid of this freak NOW before he gets worse. Look into the stalking laws in your state to see if they can help. (They didn't in my state) Good luck, I've got a psyco ex of my own and he hasn't gotten much better after four years!
2006-10-05 08:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by charlotte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order
2006-10-05 12:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by caribbeangal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order or a really big boyfriend.
2006-10-05 08:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't want anything to do with him. If that doesn't work then get a restraining order from the police. Goood luck!
2006-10-05 08:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by Krisy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had to obtain a restraining order agains my soon to be ex husband because he harrass's me too much and he was trying to ruin my life.
it might not be a horribe idea to get one. save all the emails, phone calls and everything that he does to upset you.
2006-10-05 08:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by andy l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋