i hate my spetfather and the problem is that every time we get into a fight my mom says that he is right and i'm not. At first i didn't get mad at my mom but i'm starting to kind os (hate her). god she's my mom waht should i do? help...!!!!
2006-10-05 08:04:29 · 5 answers · asked by Frances N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok, just stay out of any ot their stuff. your stepdad obviously sees you as a competitor to your mom's attentions. And to a certain degree he is right. You'll actually win mom over by doing pleasant things for your stepdad. Yep, swallow your pride. It seems ridiculous to be expecting the 'kid' to take the responsibility for this, but if you have to you have to. Sorry about the hassle. Who needs it eh. Be well.
2006-10-05 08:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Tall Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has to have a united front with her husband. Why do you hate him? What did he do? How about sitting down & talking to them both, when you and they are calm? Most of the time honey, they are looking out for your best interest. They have made the mistakes they are trying to not let you make.
2006-10-05 15:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by daj11551 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course your mom's going to take his side, she's in a relationship with him. If I were you, I would just agree with them and give up on arguing... Don't worry, it will get better. Any specific issues that you have been arguing about???
2006-10-05 15:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Clark 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
counselling might help.....look at what you hate about your step father & maybe some stratagies to improve your relationship, which will then improve your relationship with mum....good luck
2006-10-05 15:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by Donna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her
2006-10-05 15:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by alisha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋