Ok, i'm bi sexual (stil in the closet), have been with chicks, and honestly i think i'm like 50/50. anyway have recently moved to a new country and met a few people and have become friends with a gay/bi guy (stil in the closet), which i only found out lyk 2 months after meeting him. I came out to him like 4 months ago when he came out to me. We went in a group of friends to gig's and party's and jus generally hangin out and became best friends, and then one day he was dropping me at home, closed the tinted windows and held my hand and hugged me and we just sat there in each others arms. The next day, i thought ok, let me jus ask him what he felt about me? he said take a guess, and i guessed based upon what happened the previous night and he just said no, i asked why and he said just and then inturupted, but everytime i see him after that, he gives me "that look" any suggestions on what i should do. i dont want to break our friendship by saying anything else.
2006-10-05 08:04:06 · 9 answers · asked by Cool_Dude 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well, beepittwice's, in case u havent realised, u r kind in the gay/bi section of Y/A, so go take a hike. wtf?
2006-10-05 08:11:01 · update #1
I'm sure he has had s3x wit a guy b4,but dont think he is scared.
2006-10-05 08:12:21 · update #2
You mean to tell me you would rather put your ---- up a **** hole than in a woman please get some help...
2006-10-05 08:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋
Oh dear!
You have to make a very difficult decision and soon.
Speak to your friend and say exactly what is on your mind and what it is you want from him (if you know), lay your cards on the table, tell him that you really want to know what that night was all about. He could be feeling confused and frightened or nothing at all. Be prepared for your friend not to want the same as you, though I know that doesn't help and it will hurt if you are rejected.
If you do nothing this will not go away, sooner or later it will resolve it self. Later is not good as it means a lot of uncertainty and pain for you. Your friend was old enough to hold your hand they are old enough to speak about their feelings, you best be old enough to accept. I hope this ends well for both of you but you have to face him now or your friendship is ending anyway.
2006-10-05 08:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Willi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, get out of the CLOSET, its the 21st century for crying out loud. Second, he's your best Friend, and why you wouldn't want to have sex with a Friend? you guys know each other better than the person you meet the other night at the club.
as long as you or him are not in a current relationship with anyone else, I say GO FOR IT !
2006-10-05 08:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Angelo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm, it sounds possibly that he could be scared, has he had sex yet? What is it he really wants, does he just want a good friend who understands what he likes, or does he want a relationship. If you both are bisexual I do not see how you can have a solo relationship, because one or the other might decide to be with a woman.
2006-10-05 08:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Finally home 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all you have to do is wat do u have against me when i ask u that question and have a little chat with him and ask him y is u actin like this and y did u act like this when i ask u the question and if he say i dunno(i don`t know) just be like well that is not the answer 2 my question and if he gets mad be like hold on u can`t be mad at me just cause i ask u that question just say do u like me as a fried or as sometrhin more and let him think about it trust me on this one one of my friends are bi sexual and she tried 2 ask me out and i siad i am sorry but i am straight and wat i said 2 her cause she got real mad and i said look u are nice and sweet but all u have 2 do is find a girl that is ur type and she said ok and it all worked out with her her new girl is jennifer
2006-10-05 08:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by lillian 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he was just having a very emotionally powerful bonding friendship moment with you as a human being and not as a lover?
2006-10-05 08:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a sweet story. I think he likes you but is just too scared to say so. Maybe he just got dumped and needs to take it slow. Good Luck.
2006-10-05 08:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it by ears, like what u said, ur friend is still in the closet, and it must be hard for him to actually give in to his new interests, so be patient and stay nice
2006-10-05 08:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should grab his butt! Show him you really mean business.
2006-10-05 08:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋